Top Ten Reasons Why People Hate Being In a Relationship

It sorts out the reasons behind many single individuals
The Top Ten
1 It's Hard to Find a Suitable Partner These Days

I wouldn't mind the concept but not only is nearly everyone at my school taken. I've never felt love since my middle school years ended. Plus I'm not 100% good socially. So I don't even bother asking anyone out because generally I know that 9 times out of 10 that they're taken. I'm probably be one of those adults that's still single in their 20's to be honest. And this is coming from a heterosexual.

Not that I even want a relationship in the first place, but it's not like the selection in my school is that great. All of the guys at my school are complete and utter idiots.

When I was in 7th grade, most people were in a relationship. All but me, my boyfriend, who I started dating when I was 15, my two best friends, and a few other girls.

2 To Not Let Things Go Complicated (Marriage, Children, Family Gatherings, ... Etc)

Single hood all the way!

My number 1 reason

3 They Prefer the "Single" Status

all my relationships ended itself risking me in the end, I was being myself establishing things yet no matter what I do it ends itself before anything gets established, I have no clue nor idea of what I did/done wrong to have it end as it ended, I was being myself establishing things as normally & healthily as possible so that way everything can be self sustainable/manageable. I did what I did for a reason & they have done what they've done for a reason, if no understanding boundary/boundaries is never met it is best to just let nature play itself out for you

This always happens, but trust me, you won't think the same once you get a girlfriend.

I will get a girlfriend when hell freezes over! Staying single is the best!

4 To Focus on Their Jobs and Hobbies

That's one of the reasons why I'm not in a relationship. (Another is my parents won't allow me until 18). I'm trying to focus on my schoolwork and my future and that's more important to me. Plus, I think waiting for the right guy is better than having a relationship right now and later find out he is not the one.

Yeah I am trying to focus on my schoolwork and other stuff right now so I really don't have time for any relationships.

I'm currently in a relationship, but I just go along with the program.

5 It's Expensive
6 It is an Out-Dated Concept
7 They are Not Confident Enough to Commit

That's me no confidence in relationships

8 They Don't Want to Cheat
9 To Not Allow the Other Person to Tell You What to Do

I have pre-existing 💩 to deal & tolerate with, love romance marriage are ghost money wasted anyway, all my relationships failed & I am very happy & willingly to die celibate by never ever having children who share my blood, I'm better off taking care of my sick ass family because I don't give a 💩 whoever gives to me & if anyone gives to me they will lost more than 10 teeth & come home with more than 10 limbs permanently damaged. I am more than willing to sell all of my sperm away & eventually sell my penis & testicles because love in the West is dead head first dead, I would be astonished to even have a child of my own in my mid50s if I'm lucky enough, my ghetto ass boomer parents mistreating a hopeless romantic millennial like myself, the internet can just die

This is right, people these days believe that they are the boss of you

10 Fear that They'll Let the Other Person Down

That's me all the way.

This is how I feel

The Contenders
11 The Fear of Being Hurt by the Other Person Emotionally

I never ever emotionally damaged anyone in the relationships I was in, I did what was written in me for prosperity & starting the early stages of beginning a family, I maybe a underdog yet some underdogs earned leadership for the homeland/homelands they are born to protect, misunderstanding/misunderstandings isn't family misunderstandings is for newbie students who can't see what is granted for them what they have prayed for & disown it immediately. you literally pray for your twinflame/kindred spirit because of you & not them & or other party (the individual you prayed for), everything happens because of you because the circumstances happened for a purpose/reason because you literally prayed for it with minimal thought, praying for love comes to you & regardless of appearances that individual you prayed for is your fulfillment, disowning a fulfillment shatters the depths of your flesh

12 People are Selfish
13 No Freedom

If I had a family, I'd have to stay home raising kids and work super hard while my single friends enjoy their lives and travel the world

That's how I feel...

14 They Take It Very Seriously

I was very serious with my first two relationships, my first lasted 6 years & my second lasted three months, both of those relationships were mixed bags, I did everything possible to keep those relationships alive & they betrayed me & broken up with me with no explanation. after the unexpected loss I'd promised myself to never date again, noticing couples getting married & fulfilling themselves makes me realize how out of place I am, I did everything possible to be normal & my greatest loss is never being normal after everything I'd invested in, growing old without anyone that doesn't love me is beyond isolating & aging in the isolation has its toll which is its curse. what did I do what did I commit to deserve to die by myself? I'd committed the impossible to be normal & happy, is my family friends exes mentally ill or are they just want me to die to fulfill a morbid wish to destroy my corpse in its body bag? cause if so why? guess no matter were your born everyone around you just wants you dead no matter who/what you are.

15 You Can't Have 2 Relationships at Once
16 They're Very Shy
17 It Reminds Them of Their Parents

I can even talk to one girl without their parents saying racist comments to me. You may think racism is gone, then you are dead wrong.

18 The Expectation of Sex
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