Top Ten Must Have Qualities Girls Look for In Guys

So, many are curious. What do girls search for in guys? Here are the top ten

The Top Ten

1 Kind

I so wish this list was true (these days anyways). - AGK

I'll sum this up. Guys: Don't be douche bags. - defyingravity

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2 Humor

I always make myself laugh, maybe he'll like my jokes... - PrincessKiana

Laughing can bring people together.

Girls like to laugh too. - defyingravity

3 Sensitivity

Someone who trays not to take it to far if you don't want to, but will always be there for you to cry on.

Most girls want a guy who wants to cuddle - defyingravity

4 Similar Intelligence

No girl wants a guy who is either so stupid they can't relate, or so smart that she can't relate - defyingravity


I'm screwed
I'm so much smarter than the girl I like; that might be a good thing; it might mean she's stupid enough to not realize how weird I am
She is s=incredibly kind, pretty, outgoing and appreciative though

I want to know someone like you, you sound like such a nice person - pjo

5 Similar Hobbies

It's good to have hobbies and stuff you both enjoy - defyingravity

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6 Good Looks

Yes, girls are shallow as well sometimes. Most want a guy that is at least semi-attractive, if not a sex god. - defyingravity

I like the skinny nice dark guys like myself with a little muscle. - PrincessKiana

That what I think in every boys

7 Self Confidence

I came to this list waiting to read things I wouldn't like. Instead, I found all of the elements are understandable, though "self confidence" is the one I always wonder why girls only find attractive slef confident guys. Most self-confident guys are complete idiots, who believe they are the best of the world ignoring their idiocy. Humble men, who watch at themselves as great people but respect the girls and because of that they don't dare to approach to them, at least half of times are not self confident. So here's the point: The probability you find a guy who is self confident and at the same time a great guy, is really low compared to the probability to find an amazing guy who is not self-confident. But girls' likes goes with nature, and don't understand of human culture. I wonder why human beings can't decide which person to like by thinking rationally. It would be much better, wouldn't it? Great list, defyingravity. - keyson

I am not instantly attracted to a man with self-confidence. I prefer the modest, quiet, shy intelligent ones. Too much self-confidence is such a turn off. - Britgirl

I'm actually attracted to shy modest guys. From experience they're a lot kinder, sweeter, smarter, and attractive. But that's just me maybe I'm just weird :-) - happyhappyjoyjoy

As long as he's not arrogant,it is okay. - Elina

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8 Height

No one cares how tall you are

Yea am tall, so that explains why girls go for me...

9 Similar Beliefs

If you can't agree on anything, what is there to talk about? - defyingravity

10 Humble

The Contenders

11 Strength

Girls like guys who like a cuddle, but we also need a guy who can hold his own, stand up for himself, and for us. - defyingravity

12 Dependable
13 Smart
14 Money
15 An Interest

Girls don't typically go for guys who aren't interested in girls, relationships, or really much of anything - defyingravity

16 Romantic
17 Athletic Ability

Lots of girls naturally look at how athletic guys are.

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19 Honesty

It's so hard these days to find a NICE guy who can be open to and honest to you WITH OUT breaking up with you.

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