Top Ten Reasons Cheating in a Relationship Is Wrong
I honestly couldn't do this and to have this happen is soul-destroying.
I couldn't and wouldn't let myself get into a relationship with a man who was already in a relationship, however much I liked him. Why? If he could cheat to be with me, I know he wasn't trustworthy. I'd rather be in love with a man I couldn't have than to have him and know he cheated on the woman he made vows and a commitment to.
Sure...A heart breaking thing, Some people feel estranged because they think they're being betrayed and then it's a piece of cake for those hallow humans to leave you, Look in your soul, It's the other way around.
I think this has to be first. When you cheat on someone, you take a lot of their self-esteem from them in the process.
I am a supporter of open relationships, polyamory and polygamy... but foremost there needs to be honesty. If your partner says no to that kind of relationship, then it's a no. You need to respect that. Honesty is the most important thing of all in a relationship.