Things to Never Say to a Single Person
If you are single, what are the lines that you hate to hear because they are condescending, thoughtless, trite, cliche, etc.? This list was started using cliches from dating blogger Erin Meanley's post titled "19 Things You Should Never Say to a Single Person but feel free to add lines that were not included in the original post.There maybe plenty of fishes in the sea, but none of them will ever be her. Because she's the only one I will ever love. Who invented this crappy phrase anyway? I bet he never had a broken heart before.
A lot of women, only use you in a rebound level of getting out of a relationship or marriage. Many others don't care about your needs and wants nad are very cynical about you wanting to have children.
Someone: "Have you tried online dating? "
Me: "No! I will not try online dating at all and I don't trust it. Face to Face dating is a lot better."
Really? So if I'm not looking, how will I see it happening? Don't ever say that again, please, just don't.
I'm not going to lower my standards just to get a date.
Too tired of hearing this, for the last several 14 years.
Oh my broken heart! You guys have no idea how many times I've heard this. Maybe its true?
Bull. Not loving yourself doesn't make you unloveable or less deserving of love. It's a good idea to be comfortable with who you are before heading into a relationship but I've seen others find mates who loved them enough to show them how to love themselves if they didn't know how. In fact, it's how the deepest relationships can develop. Often, people who grew up unloved have more difficulty finding love, whereas people who grew up loved tend to find love, marriage, etc. More easily. It's why people promote this dumb cliches like this, we just live in a selfish, superficial world.