Top Ten Things Parents Need to Stop DoingHey parents or soon to be parents reading this, I'm a 13 year old so you probably won't listen to me but you should. I'm trying to help you be better and DON'T do these to your children.
Parents should never abuse their children. It’s bad for both the childrens’ physical and mental health. Parents who do this should not be parents. No one deserves to go through this type of trauma
Depends on what is abuse. Spanking for things like say, physically bullying someone isn't abuse but say, bashing their heads against the wall for small things like getting an average grade, now that's abuse.
Depends on what you may consider as "abuse". Cause a lot of the time when parents discipline their children, children take it the wrong way thinking it's abuse & starts to build a growing hatred towards their parents.
Child abuse is wrong in all ways. The worst part abt child abuse is that someone's abusing their own child. Their blood. Their FAMILY. It's so screwed up that people who are supposed to love you more than anything abuse children.
Only after you reach adulthood. If you're still a minor, then your parents do need a partial control over your lives. If children are let go off completely without any guidance saying it's "their life", then they most probably won't end up in the right place.
Children should make their own choices. They are not their parents, they are themselves
Let them wear what they want or listen to what music they want.
Children need proper boundaries to mature properly.
Well, one hand it might sound like a moral thing to not force your kids career choices. But on the other hand, that doesn't mean that you should completely let go off your kids letting them do whatever they want saying it's their life. If your child wants to be a construction worker or some other menial job, it's better to counsel your child to consider other career choices possibly a better one.
Just let them do what they want with their life. Why does it matter to you anyway?
Children should do whatever jobs they want. They don’t have to be high-paying. They should be something the child enjoys
NOT ALL ASIAN KIDS WANT TO BE DOCTORS!
I wish that my parents wouldn’t do this. My parents want me to get straight A’s, take all honors classes, and get a master’s degree and it stresses me out
Dear Asian parents, please stop forcing us to be doctors, lawyers, and engineers. It may not be the right career choice for us. Also please accept A- and B+ grades. They are excellent. Sincerely, every Asian child born in America.
Please try not to do this. A little bit of pressure is okay to motivate your children but I can say from experience that a ton of parental pressure is not healthy.
Depends on the context. If it's related to studies & stuff like that, a little push is always needed in order to guide & motivate you to the right direction
Horrible punishment. It causes injury by breaking the capillaries and causing burn trauma, so it’s an overrated punishment that’s taken too far.
Sad how parents treat their children that way. Plus if a child gets spanked in a suspicious area, like a large vein, he/she could suffer excessive bleeding that could be serious and require medical help, or if hard in the skull, could displace and traumatize the brain, causing stroke, killing the child.
Why would parents treat their children that way?
Ikr!? It needs to stop! I'm sick of kids being treated this way just because they don't want to do something you want them to do. Parents need to learn that beating your child is child abuse. Parents also need to know that not everything has to go their way just because they are the adults.
This one is a hard one up until the 00s most parents spanked or took a belt to their child, now with everyone trying to be as safe as possible everything becomes much more difficult.
Ever wonder why Asian countries are considered as some of the most respectful countries in the world?
Sorry, but your lungs will be a bit damaged if you do that. Sure, it may relax you, but there are consequences that can remain on your lungs.
A biology textbook in my country even encouraged smoking by saying it is 'relaxing' and 'helps you digest'. Scandalous!
It's irresponsible and will cause your child to have lung issues later on in life.
Kids will be kids, it is hard to stop them from doing what they want to do
It's obvious as to why parents are concerned about what kind of music their children are listening to. If music lyrics are taken so seriously more than the musician intended to, it can be a bad influence on children. So the basic thing that parents need to teach their kids is that they can listen to whatever music they want to, but just don't take every song lyric so seriously. Like if a Cannibal Corpse song has lyrics referencing to necrophilia, that doesn't mean you should go out to the mortuary molesting dead bodies, nor do the musicians who made the song want you to. They are all made with entertainment & humor in heart.
It's their ears not yours. Everyone swears, Sex is a normal part of life, and people can sing abt whatever they want.
True story I have catholic parents and they force me to give up on rock music
Let your kids decide what kind of they music they want to listen to.
Trust me, it impacts your children negatively. It impacts me negatively pretty much. It doesn't work at all. It just makes things worse and puts pressure on your children and gives them anxiety.
Well there should be a balance in that as well as all things in life, because too much is negatively impacting and we also don’t want kids bored either, but to go outside and walk and spend time together is very healthy and beneficial as well.
Depends, You wouldn't want your child to be on the internet 24/7
This is fine. They need to get outside and play. They shouldn’t have electronics anyway until they’re like 12 at least. Even then they should be limited
Strongly agree; giving kids phones is an irresponsible action for parents. I once saw 7-9 year olds who already have their own cell, without being monitored by their parents, and some of these have full access to social media and other teenager stuff features, most of these kids on this age range haven’t even embraced the internet, nor familiar with the common dangers of the internet. They’re very subject to addiction overtime on this range, leading to consequences and eventually becoming spoiled brats later on. Yes a phone is a kids dream but that doesn’t mean you should gift them on such a young age. Give them a phone around their early-mid teenage years as they are usually more responsible for handling a phone, but monitoring every action they do is a must.
I haven’t got my first phone until I turned 14 (my sisters got theirs when they were still 13). Is this bad?
Like the same way I got my first iPod touch when I was 10 (one of my sisters turned 9 when she got hers and my other sister was 7 when she got hers) and I got my Apple ID when I graduated 5th grade at 11.
Is this good or kind of sad?
Kids really don't need phones until they're like 13, although id probably wait until 14 or 15 for my kid. I know it'd suck for the kid but I'm glad I didn't get one very young because I know if I did then I would have turned out a lot worse
Little kids need to interact with each other and the world around them. Technology doesn’t do anything but isolate them. If you give them a phone at least wait until they get to middle school. Even then they still need to be monitored
Nope. You shouldn't let your child dress like Nicky Minaj from Anaconda exposing everything even if they want to. It's bad enough sexual harassment cases & pedophiles are increasing number. Now you want to attract pedos towards your child?
If it's showing their skins, then no. Not to kids in 8-12 years old. Pedophiles will increases the chances of sexual harassment to them. Do that at the start of 17-23 years old.
Well, I wish my mom wasn’t quite so picky about what I wear. What’s wrong with shorter shorts? And leggings? And shirts that show a small portion of back? It’s not like I want to go everywhere wearing just a bikini or something!
So yeah I do think parents should let their children wear what they want except WITHIN REASON. I honestly can’t stand it when people have practically every inch of skin showing.
My parents want me to wear feminine clothes even though I am a tomboy
No one wants more spoiled whiny kids who think they have the worst lives ever because their parents didn't let them get tik tok.
Easily the worst. This whole outrage over so called "overparenting" is nuts when "overparenting" creates much better people than under parenting does. If you spoil your kid and let them control you, it will not turn out great. This list was made by little kids I bet. The only legitimate addition on here is number 1, Abusing children, which is always horrible no matter how you parent your offspring.
My relatives must learn how to say "no" whenever my little cousins tell them to buy stuff for them
Should be top 3 easily. Spoiling children just teaches them that they can get whatever they want
I agree that parents should accept their kids' sexuality whether they are gay or straight. But if they want to go to extremes like change their gender for example, that's an entire different conversation & no sudden decisions should be taken without long consideration
Thankfully my parents accept me for being Bi though it took a while for them to come around.
My parents thought I was going through a phase when I told them I was bisexual
They should accept it but shouldn’t force them to be straight or LGBT
Sometimes they need a good yelling at. Not over something minor but if they really did something horrible you should.
My parents used to yell at me when I was a toddler and now I have anxiety
So you can't yell at your kids but you can at your siblings?
Sometimes they need to be yelled at
Overprotective parents are the reason why I go to Incognito mode.
My mom is very overprotective of me
Tell that to my mom!
Should be top 5. It’s fine to protect your kids but as they get older you gotta nudge them a bit. “A baby bird can’t learn to fly if it never leaves the nest.”
My school has cameras where parents can see what's going on through their websites.
Uhhh who does this?
I think it should be illegal to have more than 1 child because when people have more than 1, they hardly ever get along. Just because the parents didn't use a condom when they had sex, their first child gets stuck with a nosy, loud, destructive, and attention hogging sibling which basically ruins their life and good times.
For the ones who already had kids, you would bring more evil. By the way, if you are saying legendary bands like Slayer and Bring Me The Horizon should be banned, maybe YOU should be banned from living, you inconsiderate monstrosities!
What if they are very old though? Eh?
Depends, You never know who they're texting.
Please stop lying.
Agreed. And not just minors, I don't think even college kids should be allowed to drink
Yep, there is an age limit.
Did you see what happened when they let kids to 12 or 13 years old playing these games? Trust me, you don't want to know.
No I can play whatever I want deal with it.
my parents don't allow me to play these, but I rebel. I played gta once on our shared ipad when we were young so thanks dad
Well, we talk about children! They need to learn and know the truth at their age.
They should be open to the truth about certain things as they begin puberty.
Santa Claus doesn't exist.
"Do. Not. Cry." Said as a parent is yelling; thus indicating THEY'RE allowed to express negative emotions but the child can't.
Like saying "don't use that tone with me" in the very tone of voice they don't want you to use.
My mom swears a lot, but doesn’t let me swear for some reason
My mon says the d word (dam) but I can’t how hypocritical
Maybe I don't want to have kids, retards.
Depends on the age, and being real with you, if you're 13 and your parents say you shouldn't be dating, they probably do have a point. But if you're like 16 or 17 and are going out with a person from your school, that's another story.
There is a hook:
13 years old? That has to wait. You're still a minor at that age.
16 & 17 years old? That is acceptable, but be wary.
Well they can date whenever they want as long as they are in middle school at least
At least until they reach the age of consent.