Top Ten Things Public School Doesn't Prepare You ForI can't exactly speak against the U.S. public school system, being Canadian, but I can't imagine things being too different over there when it comes to the way they prioritize what kids and teens need to learn to move towards the more complicated stages of life. Children born into less-than-functional family environments can miss out on critical knowledge about how to make it on their own once they receive their independence. And since elementary, middle, and high schools don't (frequently) teach these things, they're likely going to have a very difficult time adjusting to adulthood. This list compiles the ten life skills that should be part of public school's (primarily high school's) curriculums that aren't (ever, usually, or usually mandatory).
My main thought is taxes. But of course budgeting, bill-paying, and whatever else-paying are all extremely important things to know. And I feel handling one's credit should be a big part of what is taught to our youth about money.
I'm an adult in the US, most of the money handlind and credit knowledge I have is through making mistakes and getting in debt. I remember in HS we had a "life skills" class but it never taught us anything besides health stuff.
I honestly have no clue how to pay taxes, bills, or really even how a credit card works. That's crucial life skills, school, come on!
Do I know how to pay my taxes? No.
Do I know the difference between igneous and metamorphic rocks? Yes. It was "necessary" information.
I wish they taught this. I wouldn't call myself antisocial, but I don't have friends at school. At home and around family I can be really confident because they were around my whole life, but I was never taught how to befriend new people! I had friends when I was in kindergarten to second grade, but by third grade we drifted apart. I was never really bullied much (but a lot of kids annoyed me about doing my work when they should be doing their own) now, in six grade, I have no friends at school! All the people who are close to me are close because I knew them my whole life, but what if they're away?
All the time on the first day of school, all the teachers make you introduce yourself, because they think it'll help you make friends. But if you ask me, it's just making enemies.
Teacher - (name), could you introduce yourself?
Kid 1 - Sure. My name's (name), I like to (enter hobby here), my favorite singer is (enter singer here), my favorite movie's (enter movie here), etc.
Kid 2 - Dude, that movie is for babies.
Kid 3 - BOI YOU JUST GOT BURNED! *dabs for eternity*
Kid 4 - Only a total idiot would listen to that singer.
Kid 5 - You're name is weird.
I wish that this was taught. Most of the time public school is good for me, but not this topic. This is an area where I still have my dumb PDD so if they taught this then maybe it would make it easier in social situations.
Special ed does this, but it's all too basic, like preschool manners, sort of.
The youth of today need guidance. If they didn't, you wouldn't see dirty-looking 17 year old high school students smoking outside the school gymnasium during lunch hour. There are a million more other things that kids and teens need help with when it comes to making the right choices in life but I think you can fill in the blanks, yourselves.
As an aspiring scientist, being able to infer logically is what I hold dear. A number of people in my high school physics class, even in the last year, were always coming to me for answers, and it kept me from the work itself. Thus, it would be best for both worlds if this was taught from year one.
All that school does is to brainwash us to become mindless conformists who just make decisions according to their subjective definition of what is "right". Good thing I stopped believing in the concept of "right and wrong".
"When I think back on all the crap I learned in high school, it's a wonder I can think at all."
Yes, it is available in school systems, but don't you think it should be a mandatory class? Is it not something that everyone needs to know to live on your own?
Ask any 20-something person living in Canada how the Canadian government system works and 99.99% of the people you ask won't even know how our voting system works. I am one of them. I wish I knew more but a crash course in government functions isn't in my foreseeable future (because... life happened). I don't know how ignorant Americans are about their government but I'm sure it's not a very promising number, either.
I know basic stuff, like you shouldn't steal, murder, or other stuff, but I don't know much still. How does the American voting system work, exactly?
They teach us the basics in U.S. government. Other than that, I don't know much about our current government.
Two U.S. history classes in high school covers it enough.
Why this isn't taught concurrently with every class that ever existed in any elementary or high school I will never know. It's usually a quick thirty-second mention at the beginning of a class when it should be something teachers are focusing on for the duration of the school year. We all need to be taught this. Everybody freaks out or worries during test and exam times. Why? Because we aren't born with time management skills engraved in our heads.
A lot of our teachers could use some help in this department.
Won't stop you from goofing off anyway.
Again, I know it is a class offered in high schools. But, since most people DO become parents or guardians in some form once they reach adulthood, it should be a required course to take. I included first aid with childcare since knowing how to give CPR or properly pressurize a wound is... well... do I really need to stress the importance of having this knowledge?
My health class only focused on this for a week! I still don't think I'll be ready to take care of someone who gets a heart attack with just a quick lesson on it, right?
AGAIN, I know it IS offered in schools (Home Economics - or whatever your school calls it) but it is not nearly taken seriously enough. I know my high school never had classes with more than ten students at a time per class (or with 50% or more males in any respective class). I, for one, deeply regret not taking it in high school since I can barely pour cereal properly or make Kraft Dinner (Mac & Cheese to you Americans) without burning it or drowning it in too much milk.
I'm an awful cook. I don't know how ill fare in the future with no Home Ec class in high school. Maybe that's why America's so... Robust, relying on reddy-made and restaurants for food. Haha!
For cooking, I'm good at breadstuffs but bad at dairy and fruit sort of stuff.
Just like home repair, auto repair is an essential thing to learn about. I understand that the cars of today are much more complex than the cars of the 70's and back, but even a minor understanding of how your car functions can be the difference between being stranded on the side of a freeway and being able to make it to the nearest garage (and not have to wait for and pay for a tow truck).
One can't just Google online and learn it?
This one is a bit tricky since it's hard to imagine a structured class on how to hit on someone. Nonetheless, I think it would better society if a practical course in dating was offered in school systems. It just needs some figuring out and perhaps some trial runs.
We learn these ourselves
That would be awesome!
Some of us can't seem to grow vegetables without them dying so we need herbology classes...