Top Ten Things You Usually Don't Feel Confident or Comfortable About Doing

Songsta41
I really just made this list because I wanted to put a question mark in my list title (I bet admin deleted it by now). But anyways, we all have situations in which we do that we have little confidence in, something that makes us uncomfortable but we just can't let ourselves avoid it. Enjoy!

The Top Ten

1 Asking someone on a date

This is why I stay out of relationships. - Userguy44

I have never asked no one on a date 1 I am I middle school and every one in my grade does it I think we are to young 2 I never EVER what to get married or go on a.date I just what my horse and friends and famliy and that's it but some one in 6 grade and I hate him asked me if I what to go on a date with him and I could not here him so it took me 7 times for him to say it and right after 7 times I hurd date and I quickly shot him down now that I think about it I kinda feel bad for him that I made him say it 7 times lol

I agree 100% That is very hard to do, I have a crush and I should ask her on a date, but I can't. What do I do?

I'm scared of asking my crush out on a date, I'm also scared of talking to her. - mlcassidy9

yes

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2 Giving a speech

Just do an impromptu speech, your anxiety gives you the passion to succeed and that gives you ideas - fwed

I actually love doing this - blackflower

This always gets me I hate it

I've never had a problem with public speaking. I could keep a crowd entertained for hours with no notes and be absolutely at ease. It's much less stressful than carrying out a normal conversation.

I guess I'm weird. - PetSounds

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3 Telling your parents you lost or broke an expensive item

Thank goodness my mom won't usually yell at me. - Solacress

70-90% of the stuff that I've accidentally dropped, destroyed, or broken, my mom would yell at me for it. :(

Asking some crush out is a piece of cake compared to this. - 3DG20

Unfortunately, I'm good at breaking ceramic goods..As if they wait to die by my inattention :(( - Ananya

Sometimes I break stuff too when I'm frustrated. I can't control myself then. - Userguy44

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4 Admitting you like your crush

I'll tell anyone except my crush

I wouldn’t tell anyone who my crush is - sadical

I used to be an asexual until I loved (yes I used the word love) this one girl and I told a few people and it was the most awkward thing ever, I wonder why God made me love this girl

I never tell anyone who I have a crush on because crushes are useless to me

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5 Being interviewed

You have maybe an hour to talk to someone, and that one hour changes the course of your life. It can affect you positively or negatively, so it is uncomfortable to sit through that hour and hope it's helping you! - Songsta41

Nothing can beat this

Album reviews rule

I immediately forget everything when this happens, just when I’m super nervous or not in the mood at the moment I guess

6 Admitting to your crush you like them

See item 4^ - Userguy44

7 Seeing a homeless person stare at you

All the time, especially with Asians.

In Vegas you'll encounter these types of people a lot. In 2015 I was at Vegas and I was in front of the Mirage hotel waiting for the volcano to go off when a guy in a wheelchair came up to me and asked for money (along with the other tourists that were on the strip). Of course, no one gave him any money (including me) so he just left us alone.

I know, it's Sin City for a reason, but it was still really awkward.

It's so uncomfortable, he stares at you and you really don't know what to do, and you feel guilty because you don't know how to help him

I would get chills up my spine!

I feel overwhelmingly guilty all the time, and even if I decide I'm going to leave, I pull out my wallet (or ask for a parent's, yes) and hand it to them, trying not to look. - MaxAurelius

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8 Meeting a girl's parents

That title is suppose to "Meeting your crush's parents."

When I go to my friends party I’m too scared to meet her parents so I yeet off - SadEpicBadical

Umm I'm a girl so no - thunderclanrocks

I'm surprised I didn't put this higher. This is such an uncomfortable experience because you never know how protective the dad is. - Songsta41

Well, there's 33% chance overprotective, 33% chance protective, 33% chill and 1% not giving a hoot about his daughter.

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9 Auditioning

I have to sing twinkle twinkle little star for an audition. Lol. - mistyglow

I auditioned for my school musical and freaked out

To be honest, auditioning isn't that bad. I played my saxaphone at an audition- and I did well. I do pretty well under pressure

Especially those of Saturday Night Live.

SNL worker: Alright, you have five minutes, go.
That's it. And in other auditions you have to sing or do something else stressful. - Songsta41

Yes, well if you want to be a singer, and to be regarded as a singer, it probably is best and beneficial if you can relax as you're likely going to need to sing and be heard by someone sooner or later. - Billyv

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10 Sneaking snakes on a plane

And then you hear a passenger named Woody say, "There's a snake in my boot! " - AnnaO

There are snakes on a plane? - Userguy44

I do that everyday. - mistyglow

Why would you attempt this? - Randomator

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The Contenders

11 Going on a date

First date by blink - 182

Definitely the first one. I’m sure that will be an interesting experience when I decide to get a girlfriend and go on a date - Randomator

12 Asking for more toilet paper in a public restaurant's bathroom
13 Singing in public

When I was on my way to the train station there was a fat shirtless guy with headphones in singing super loud

I don't mean to be rude but singing, especially very loudly in public would make you look like a fool.

I sing mostly everywhere I go as long as no one actually hears me. I love singing in front of people. - mistyglow

Well, I always sing quietly because I think no one can hear me. Turns out people can.

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14 Trying not to throw up

When you listen to K - Pop. (no offense to anyone who likes it) - fwed

Me when I listen to Cannibal Corpse. - Userguy44

Once when I was 18 I went to school while sick and I accidentally puked a bit in my mouth. I tried to hold it in but I failed and spewed everywhere. Oh yeah it was on the bus, too, and I had to clean it up afterwards.

My mom yells and slaps me when I throw up but my head hurt so I took Aspirin, I didn't know I was sick on the way to school but I was so sick I forgot Aspirin makes me feel sick and I threw up, got yelled at, and slapped! SO YAY. - Swiftdawn

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15 Eating food that doesn't taste good at someone's house

Mushroom = kryptonite - fwed

My face probably betrays me. - blackflower

I actually like all food except chicken nuggets, which nobody would give me anyway, and so I'm comfortable with eating it anyway. - MaxAurelius

I went over to my friend, Roxie's house and her mother was trying this all meat dish (I'm a vegetarian) and the most uncomfortable thing I ever did was ask her if it was humane or not, she said no but I left four SMALL bits of food on my plate and my mom gave me a nice, good slap once we were home. Though she is hard on me, mom gives me more freedom, dad does, but I can't go here and there and over there is not good - Swiftdawn

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16 Walking around boys

Nah - Luckys

Yeah, boys think it’s so weird when they see people walk. One time, I walked and a boy asked me if I was an alien! - sadical

I'm a boy - fwed

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17 Conquering your fears
18 Being around offensive jokes.
19 Meeting new people

yup - thunderclanrocks

I drown in pools of sweat in these situations.

Sorry but, the more the merrier

20 Telling dirty jokes around your parents

This is so me - Luckys

They don't even know what their kid think like

If so, then tell the this simple one. The boy fell in the mud. - ParasN2000

My parents don't even know I tell dirty jokes. Or curse. - Therandom

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21 Going to the doctor
22 Crying in front of jerks

That’s silly not uncomfortable. - Userguy44

23 Masturbating

Never felt more comfortable to this

24 Letting your parents check your search history

Bro I let my mom do this once it wasn't it chief

25 Rappelling
26 Listening to Satanic black metal at a family reunion

Not too weird, do this on a daily basis you get used to it - Morefunthanfun

Good thing I listen to alternative music!

Holy s***. The looks they'll give you. They'll take you out back and perform an exorcism. - SirSkeletorThe3rd

Umm my family introduced me to that type of music

I would love to meet your family. They're either satanists or Norwegian. I bet Norwegian - SirSkeletorThe3rd

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27 Telling someone your weight

Or talking about it at all - blackflower

I weigh 50. I know it's weird. - TeamRocket747

I'm average for a sixteen-year-old male, so no. - MaxAurelius

I feel very uncomfortable with this especially when the weight at the doctors

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28 Going to the Principle's Office

When you go to the principle office to drink

When you go to get a reward - fwed

When you go to the principle office in front of your friends

29 Having sex

No, I just lock the door - Swiftdawn

Only if the vagina is too tight and the penis is too small - Therandom

30 Using a public toilet when nature calls.
31 Stealing something
32 Getting a flu shot

Not awkward or bad though - fwed

You're kidding right? - Therandom

Not bad. Flinching is the most I do. I don't even move on a blood test. - Icantbelieveitsnotbutter

No biggie - Martinglez

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33 Talking to your crush for the first time

One time my crush said hi to me and I said I don’t know - sadical

I could talk to them and not tell them they're my crush, and they wouldn't notice. - MaxAurelius

Crushes are stupid - thunderclanrocks

Nah, I'm pretty confident about this. My advice to you is to BE calm, don't TRY to be calm. It has to feel natural. Now I know I'll get a lot of dislikes on this, but I don't care. I'm just trying to help.

After a while he'll love you and you guys will become boyfriend and girlfriend! Ahh... oops sorry that's my love life. You need to be lucky to find the perfect guy like I did. Even though I was never his crush.

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34 Kissing

No way, Adrian (my boyfriend) and I ALL the time, don't care - Swiftdawn

35 Telling your parents you're gay

I don't put a label on whether I'm gay, bi or straight! I simply do what my heart desires! anyway, there's this one kid at school that I like but their the same gender as me! It's going to be way more hard telling them I like them then telling my parents there's someone I like who's the same gender as me (I also told my friend and they said "you do know that's never going to happen" and that made me sad! ) - oceanbreezetheawesomewarrior

If your parents are Christian Extremist then it'll be the hardest thing ever. - SirSkeletorThe3rd

36 Telling someone you're suicidal
37 Telling someone about your bad emotions.

I can relate to this item at extreme levels.

38 Pirating

I use it a lot I've received multiple warnings how my computer might get a virus nothing happened though. - XxembermasterxX

Sometimes gives you computer viruses - Songsta41

39 Pretending to be someone you're not

I’m done with that now. - mistyglow

It's actually pretty funny. Just copy the person in front of them and watched them be confused at their own behavior

Yeah I mimick my crush's actions.

40 Flirting
41 Going for a prostate or colon exam

Yep. Finger up your ass. I never had to do this, but that is disgusting - KingSlayer93316

42 Going for a physical
43 Going to a nude beach.

If you do it, why would you be uncomfortable with it? - MaxAurelius

44 Asking a friend for a loan

Hey, can you give me all of your money? I’ll give it back in 2309!
Yeah, sure!
I won’t be alive then! Thank you for the money!
Lol. What am I doing? - mistyglow

45 Watching horror movies

I like horror movies - KingSlayer93316

I watched the orphan and o god never will I watch it ag

46 Getting a sports physical

What? - mistyglow

47 Trying jokes that you're not sure are very good

One time, I told a joke at my birthday party and I started laughing really hard and everyone just stared at me - sadical

It is embarrassing if there not good.-Galaxy Meowth

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48 Watching porn without headphones and get caught
49 Maths
50 Going to the bathroom in public and it is dirty

I feel very uneasy about this - SadEpicBadical

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1. Telling dirty jokes around your parents
2. Stealing something
3. Using a public toilet when nature calls.
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1. Telling your parents you lost or broke an expensive item
2. Admitting you like your crush
3. Rappelling
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1. Admitting to your crush you like them
2. Asking for more toilet paper in a public restaurant's bathroom
3. Asking someone on a date
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