Top 10 Ways TheTopTens Makes Your Life Worse

The Top Ten

1 The people make you feel insecure and stupid and naive

Yes, you do, PrincessKiana. I sent you a message saying I understood exactly how you felt. I tried to be your friend. And yet you couldn't open up your heart. You were really nice before you turned mean. Did I do or say something to you to make you hate me? I really wanna know... - RockFashionista

I really don't understand the hate, you apologized and it's clear that you feel sorry, and you're going through a lot. - Martinglez

I always thought you were an alright user - SirSkeletorThe3rd

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2 You get attacked for hating on a song that everyone likes and you feel bad about it

I know right. I think Praying and Sign Of The Times are the worst. I still love the beautiful TopTens.

I've never seen this happen here - TwilightKitsune

People respect opinions,big brotger sucks isn't hated for the songs he hates is he? - Nateawesomeness

Not really. I may get comments about me liking Beyoncé and stuff but I don't get hate comments. Don't make a list for everyone that's on my with your problems because I really don't know anyone that has these problems so keep these lists to yourself. - JaysTop10List

How am I supposed to keep a list to myself if I already made it? Lol

3 There are lists with every TopTenner on it except you

I don't care if I'm on a list or not. I figure they'll notice me sooner or later but I still won't care if they do add me - SirSkeletorThe3rd

Back in the days, I always add myself to user ranking lists.

Don't worry, because if you know you deserve it, someone would want you to get higher in the list! I could even include you on any of my remixes if you actually deserve it!

I understand. I always feel left out of users lists. - BlueTopazIceVanilla

I feel left out sometimes, but I usually don't care. - IcetailofWishClan

4 You get criticized too much for what you do and what you say

But you need to make good rebuttals on your critics. That's how you gain respect from them.

If any dumb fool on this site criticizes you. Just ignore them because most users on this site don't know how to criticize someone. They're just talking smack like little kids.

Nah, I think she needs a lot of criticism and lots of improvement. So visitor, stop kissing her ass and wake up. - JaysTop10List

Criticism is what builds this site! I get a lot of criticism inside and outside of this site and I don't care! Don't get butthurt over criticism - SirSkeletorThe3rd

Those who hate criticism know it's the cold hard truth. - Therandom

Yeah, but when several users have the same opinion, they're probably right... - Therandom

5 It can make you more depressed

This is why life is depressing!

You know what? I 100% agree.

But with time it will make you stronger. Of everything bad you hear or read you will eventually understand at one point who's right and who's wrong. Something like that takes time but one day everything will come clear and Obvious.

No, real life is pretty depressing. This site, not as much. - RockFashionista

6 Every comment you write gets thumbed down and you feel like you are being hated

Don't care, already hated enough in real life - SirSkeletorThe3rd

No, this does not happen - SpectralOwl

No,most comments are thumbs up - Nateawesomeness

Exactly. That happens to me a lot.
What have I done? Is there some kind of permanent record book in which you get punished enternally for all minor offenses? - BlueTopazIceVanilla

7 It makes you even more anxious

I have severe anxiety so it's near impossible to talk to someone in real life without getting really quiet or awkward... But whenever I'm typing I feel completely different, like I can never get judged! I guess that's why I like sites like this, just seem like a completely different person! Man, that was rather dramatic of me... Sorry. - Flowersocks2137

My anxiety is so severe I can't even function normally. This site actually has the opposite effect, because there are people on here who are willing to listen to me complain about my problems. - RockFashionista

Most users give you advice,liana,you are the user that really needs advice,and also,it's a calm website for me - Nateawesomeness

Yeah. If there is a user I think is really good, and they message me, I’m always scared they will be mad at me so I never know what to say and it’s just really scary for me because I really don’t want good users to hate me! Also, I’m also afraid that the good users will hate me because my content isn’t good enough, so I really don’t know what to do! I agree with this item so much!

8 People will get angry at you for no reason and you feel bad
9 You don't get noticed

It's a virtual thing. If you mean you don't get noticed for real or understood for what happens then it's obvious that people don't notice you. My point is, since it's not real, people who writes bad things don't know what they're really writing because they don't know you as a real person. You don't get noticed for who you really are but you are noticed as a top tenner.

I don't care if I get noticed or not. I'm still gonna make lists and posts because I know that someone out there will read and like them. - SirSkeletorThe3rd

People only notice me when I do stupid things. I don't mind much, I just kinda wish I'd be known as the kind, caring, and understanding person I try to be rather than an idiot with mental issues that has no life. - RockFashionista

Who cares? Seriously, how can a website make your life worse? How? - Therandom

10 Can make you think of cutting and suicide

Classic teenage behaviour of overreacting for very small reasons - styLIShT

If you're a 13 year old who lies and says she was abused when she was young yea sure - tacoperson

Well, I do dislike life. But don't cut yourself or such. You're just hurting yourself - MLPFan

Nateaweomeness why are you calling her a kid when she's older than you? Just saying.

The Contenders

11 It can be addicting.

Velitecabal what do you know? You never experienced so how can you know it's wrong? It may be wrong in your point of view but it's someone's else's opinion and you need to respect other people's opinions and stop thinking your opinion is right, there are other people's point of views and you don't have the balls to respect them.

I am obsessed with it.

The only reason which is actually valid.

12 Grammar Nazis
13 People judge instantly

Nah, I stalk their profile pages first before I say that I don't like the user.

14 People disrespect your opinion

It happens more than I would like.

15 People gossip about you


16 People shove their interests and hatreds down your throat
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