Top Ten Everyday Things You’re Doing to Ruin Your Life

Struggled on this a lot before until I found it was unproductive. It's almost as if you are putting mind games in yourself perceiving everyone else as if they're pawns to beat over instead of acknowledging that everyone's walks of life is unique. You don't need to walk on the same path as others. I've almost caught up to the decision that "oh, I must do that skill more so that I can be better than him", and you are making yourself believing that you should treat every activity as an indicator of status. You see someone who is superior at one certain thing, and you want to practice that thing for the sake of surpassing them, not because you are inspired or love it, and that leads you to burning out thinking you are an inferior person compared to others whenever you fail as you won't go far in this way. That mindset is not the way how you live life in my opinion.

You can't please anyone. Caring about what others think will only make you empty as people will end up hurting and disappointing you.

Obviously, then your very, very sad and want to be alone and possibly think about deaf.

I think this would be a big one for many, many people, because many can't help it.

Stop waiting for things to be perfect before you take action. Go out there and do what needs to be done to make your life perfect.

I do this all of the time. It's so fun...

Until the night before it's due.

Guilty as charged. I always kick the can

Really dumb thing to do

Living a life of complaints doesn't take you anywhere but will leave you disappointed, frustrated and angry. You need to channel that energy you use to complain into something worthwhile.

Really sad. Complaining doesn't get you what you want and it annoys others around you

Parents in a nutshell

I honestly don't worry about the future. You can't fight fate; what will be, will be. So why worry?

The only time I worry about the future is when I'm making decisions. I ask myself 'Will I regret this?'

My biggest quirk.

It can cause you to get lost in the past while you should be worrying about the present

Many take on lives that are not theirs. They pretend and live under false guises. You have to be completely honest about who you are and live on that line.

Funny thing: I'm a big-time liar in real life but very honest online.

You can't take life too seriously. People will hurt you and you will hurt others. Holding on to grudges or anger will only blind you from focusing on what is truly important.

You should never hold a grudge on anyone for anything.

It's also very unhealthy to get overly hung up on the consequences