Top 10 Friendliest U.S. States

Some places just have that welcoming energy, where strangers smile at you on the street, customer service workers actually seem happy to help, and people hold the door open instead of letting it slam in your face. If you've ever traveled across the U.S., you know that friendliness can vary a lot from state to state. Some places are known for their warm hospitality, while others... not so much.

Of course, friendliness can mean different things to different people. Some states are known for their small-town charm, where neighbors genuinely look out for one another. Others might be full of upbeat, talkative people who will strike up a conversation with anyone. Some places have a relaxed, laid-back attitude that makes everyone feel at home.

1. Minnesota

   

   Minnesota is a state in the Midwestern United States. It was admitted as the 32nd state on May 11, 1858, created from the eastern portion of the Minnesota Territory.

   The state is known for its lakes, natural beauty, and high standard of living. It has a cold climate, particularly in the winter... read more

   I usually would not comment on silly lists like this, but reading the negative things people are writing makes me upset. There are kind and mean people in every state, and to answer the person who said they have been in 32 other states, so have I, and so have other people.

   I have also traveled over halfway around the world, so what? It is true, I find Minnesotans to be some of the kindest and nicest people, and that's why I choose to stay in this beautiful state.

   Have you ever heard of Minnesota Nice? It's a real thing. There are many good qualities of Minnesota and its people. They are nice, generous, polite, helpful, considerate, hospitable, and mindful. Plus, it's a beautiful place, with all those thousands of lakes and forests decorating the state. It's a wonderful place no matter what season it is. You betcha!

2. Iowa

   

   Iowa is a U.S. state in the Midwestern United States, bordered by the Mississippi River on the east and the Missouri River and the Big Sioux River on the west. The state plays a key role in U.S. presidential elections as it holds the first caucus in the primary season. As of July 2025, Iowa permits Constitutional... read more

   Even at the local Starbucks, people are considerate. I was babysitting a five-year-old boy, and he had to go to the restroom. Someone came up to me a few minutes later and informed me that the door was really heavy, so he might be having trouble getting out. How sweet!

   Then, a lady pointed out and helped pick out a LEGO piece he had dropped.

   I definitely agree with this! From Mickey's Irish Pub to the college campus sidewalks, my children were greeted with respect, patience, and consideration. I'd contend Iowa should be number one, even!

3. California

   

   California is a state in the Southwestern United States. With 39.6 million residents across a total area of about 163,696 square miles (423,970 square kilometers), California is the most populous U.S. state and the third largest by area. The state capital is Sacramento, and the largest city is Los Angeles.... read more

   I have visited and also have lived there. It is a mixed bag. In LA cities (LA County), long-term residents who are not there to be in the industry from somewhere else are the nicest people. Newly moved there and keeping up with the Joneses type, which there are plenty of, are rude. Venice Beach, Marina Del Ray, San Francisco, and San Jose, in my personal opinion, are the friendliest in California.

   The friendliest people in the entire country are here, especially when you take into account the diverse population. Other states bragging about friendliness only extend it superficially in an unmeaningful way.

4. North Carolina

   

   North Carolina is a state in the southeastern region of the United States. The state borders South Carolina and Georgia to the south, Tennessee to the west, Virginia to the north, and the Atlantic Ocean to the east. It is known for its diverse geography, from the Appalachian Mountains to the coastal... read more

   I have lived in North Carolina most of my life. I haven't heard any references to the Civil War recently, or even in the last 20 years, so I'm not sure where this is coming from, as a poster mentioned in a previous post. And I don't see any more racism here than in any of the other 15 states I have visited. I think there are friendly and unfriendly people in pretty much every state.

   Certainly, there are some states where people aren't as open or welcoming as others. I can say I have lived in New Jersey, and you couldn't pay me to live there again. People are definitely friendlier in North Carolina than in New Jersey. And I certainly don't see discrimination in the workplace based on where you are from. I think maybe we have more people living here from other states than people from North Carolina. North Carolina is a very popular place for people to relocate. (Gee, I wonder why that is?)

5. Washington

   

   Washington is a state in the Pacific Northwest region of the United States, located north of Oregon, west of Idaho, south of the Canadian province of British Columbia, and along the Pacific Ocean. It is the only state named after a U.S. president. Washington is a hub for the technology and aerospace... read more

   I visited for two months, staying in Federal Way near Seattle. I loved it. The people were not overly friendly but cordial.

   It's cold in the winter, but it is a very nice place. I would like to try the eastern part of the state.

   The most friendly! People in Seattle are friendly, they watch out for bad things, and it is really cool!

   I love and miss my Washington! I currently live in Buffalo, NY, and find it the meanest, evilest place I've lived in. I am definitely trying to move back!

6. Colorado

   

   Colorado is a state in the United States that encompasses most of the Southern Rocky Mountains, as well as the northeastern portion of the Colorado Plateau and the western edge of the Great Plains. It is known for its scenic landscapes, outdoor recreational opportunities, and cities such as Denver and... read more

   I've lived in Texas, California, Puerto Rico, Florida, and have constantly visited many states in between. After moving to Colorado, I realized it has one of the friendliest and most welcoming environments by far. The mountains and scenery are gorgeous, there are lots of fun outdoor activities available, and you feel a sense of security everywhere you go.

   Everyone is compassionate, and you don't need to be checking for any shady characters 24/7. I absolutely love this state!

   I have personally lived in Colorado for my whole life. Yes, there sometimes is a homeless population, but if you dig deep, you can find some amazing people. Many people are happy to help.

   Of course, there is the occasional sketchy town, but overall it's a wonderful place.

7. Utah

   

   Utah is a state in the western United States. It became the 45th state admitted to the Union on January 4, 1896. Utah is the 13th-largest, 31st-most populous, and 10th-least densely populated of the 50 states. It is known for its natural landscapes and significant Mormon population.

   I grew up in Utah and didn't fully appreciate how amazing the people are until I moved elsewhere. I have traveled all over the USA and Europe. I lived in Michigan, Ohio, and Ireland, and I can tell you that Utah is the friendliest and most beautiful place to be anywhere.

   I met a lot of friendly and polite people when I visited this state and stayed there for a while.

   Utah is definitely the friendliest state! I live there, and the people are the best and so loving to each other.

8. Virginia

   

   Virginia, officially the Commonwealth of Virginia, is a state in the South Atlantic region of the United States. It has a diverse economy that includes government, military, and technology sectors, especially in Northern Virginia. The state played a crucial role in the founding of the United States and... read more

   I've lived in Virginia all my life, and I've got to say it is a wonderful place to live, but it has some flaws. About half of the people here aren't that sociable and would prefer to be left alone, especially in the larger populated counties and cities, so don't expect to be making friends right off the bat if you move here. I would also recommend taking a vacation to Virginia before making your final choice.

   If you go to the countryside, the coastal area, and the mountains, more people will probably be open to a conversation with you. There are also a lot of good, interesting, and cool museums in Virginia, so if you like to see and learn more about something, you should check them out.

9. Georgia

   

   Georgia is a state located in the southeastern United States. It was established in 1732, the last of the original Thirteen Colonies. Georgia has a diverse economy and is home to major cities such as Atlanta, a major transportation and business hub.

   I moved here, and yes, people are nice. I've also heard it's significantly less racist than it used to be. The state is about one-third Black, so they must not mind living here.

   We moved here from Florida, and we love it. Everybody is kind and welcoming. Also, it's so pretty here.

   We love it. One bad police officer does not make the entire state bad. People who live in Georgia were very upset with what happened.

   I went on vacation here and everyone was smiling and so nice. This needs to be the number one state. Georgia is such a nice state.

10. Texas

    

    Texas is a state in the southern United States. It is the second largest by both area and population. Its largest city is Houston, and the state's economy is diverse, including energy, technology, agriculture, and aerospace. It is also known for its hot weather, which can reach around 100 °F in many... read more

    Texas people have jobs (abundant commerce), therefore, they are happy, kind, friendly, and helpful. As stated above, Texas still provides quality education, so they do not fit the "ignorant southerner" misconception. It is a multi-cultural state, and true Texans do not accept racism and will stand against it when it arises.

    There is so much to see and do: theatre, museums, pro athletic teams, and so many restaurants, cafes, coffee shops. You could visit a different restaurant every day for years!

    I have visited Texas many times, and the folks there are great! Texas is also known for its great schools and colleges, with nicely landscaped campuses that are well maintained. Most importantly, Texas is a reasonable place for small and large businesses interested in relocating or expanding their operations, and it offers a reasonable cost of living.

The Newcomers
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    Wisconsin

    

    Wisconsin is a U.S. state located in the north-central United States, in the Midwest and Great Lakes regions. It is known for its dairy production, especially cheese, and its progressive political history. Major cities include Milwaukee and Madison, the state capital.

    Folks here are laid back, humble, calm, excellent drivers, and quite welcoming. Plus, this place possesses some of the most beautiful nature spots one could ask for. There are so many fun activities to do in this state for free! I love, love, love this wonderful land of warmth and will be moving here real soon.

    I mean, I'm from Wisconsin, so I'm bound to vote for this. The people here are actually really nice and patriotic. People always say that up here, people are rough, but actually, everyone is really friendly and gentle.

    In Wisconsin, it's so friendly that it's safe for you to keep your doors open at night. People in Wisconsin are really nice to you unless you mess with our precious cheese.

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    West Virginia

    

    West Virginia is a state located in the Appalachian region of the Southern United States. It is bordered by Pennsylvania to the north, Maryland to the east and northeast, Virginia to the southeast, Kentucky to the southwest, and Ohio to the northwest. West Virginia is the 41st-largest state by area and... read more

    I've lived in West Virginia for most of my life, though I briefly lived in Virginia and Delaware. It's been my experience to hear from many who have moved into our state that the people of West Virginia are amazingly friendly.

    As a teacher, when new students arrived, they felt quite welcome. We are very friendly and are always there for our neighbors! We should be number one!

    My experience has been that WV residents are some of the nicest, friendliest, and most helpful people in the USA. I once broke down in a rural area, and I had multiple people stop to help, offer me money, and jump my vehicle.

    I've never been scared when visiting this state, and everyone I've met seems to look out for each other. In addition, I feel WV residents are deeply passionate about where they live, their home state of West By God Virginia. Amen!

The Contenders

13. Nebraska

    

    Nebraska is a state that lies in both the Great Plains and the Midwestern United States. Its state capital is Lincoln. The state's economy is largely based on agriculture, especially corn and cattle, and it is also known for its role in U.S. westward expansion.

    Nebraska is home. I have lived in quite a few different states and large cities. I still come home to my roots. People in Nebraska are friendly. We are also protective.

    So when you live in a community for a while, you are just automatically "one" of the community. There may be a few people in town that you may not quite like, however, when the chips are down, they will usually be the first ones there to help. That's my Nebraska.

    I have lived here my whole life, and I plan to stay because everyone in this state is so polite. They're also very respectful, and they would be the ones to help you out if you're stuck on the side of the road.

    I love this state!

14. Oklahoma

    

    Oklahoma is a state in the South Central region of the United States. It shares borders with Texas, Kansas, Missouri, Arkansas, New Mexico, and Colorado. The state has a strong Native American presence and is known for its oil and gas industry and severe weather, particularly tornadoes.

    Great environment to raise a family. You will not meet people more friendly than Oklahomans. They have similar values and stay true to being a person for others.

    They live at a slow pace, so you most likely will see people stopping what they are doing to strike up a conversation with a stranger.

    I am an Oklahoman, born and raised here all my life. I'm from a small town (Ft. Gibson), and it has a very low crime rate, great schools, and wonderful people.

    There are lots of small towns in Oklahoma just like mine, small but supportive communities where morals and values are upheld and encouraged. There are wonderful people all over the state! It's an Oklahoma thing...

15. Alabama

    

    Alabama is a state in the southeastern region of the United States. It is bordered by Tennessee to the north, Georgia to the east, Florida and the Gulf of Mexico to the south, and Mississippi to the west. The state played a central role in the American civil rights movement during the 20th century.

    I was born in Alabama. I have lived in 17 states and traveled to 43. Alabama is a great state with warm and friendly people who are always willing to lend a helping hand.

    The beautiful lakes and the Gulf beaches are breathtaking.

    Southern hospitality is real, and people are always willing to help someone in need. I love the coastline and the beautiful sunsets, which match the beautiful hearts they have.

    My son moved here from Virginia, and I go often to visit him in Prattville, just outside of Montgomery. The people are so friendly, and I look forward to visiting this lovely state.

16. Oregon

    

    Oregon is a state in the Pacific Northwest region of the United States. It is bordered on the west by the Pacific Ocean, on the north by Washington, on the south by California, on the east by Idaho, and on the southeast by Nevada.... read more

    I grew up in Oregon, left to enter the Navy at 19, and was stationed in Florida, which I loved. I traveled the world, but nowhere compares with the compassionate nature and be who you are attitude of Oregonians.

    Too bad people from California complain about our beautiful state. I spent two years in the Navy stationed in California and didn't like it at all.

    My mom grew up in Oregon, so we'd visit family there occasionally. I always loved how nice everyone there was, especially compared to the Northeast, where I'm from.

    Just don't ever call it "Orey-gone."

17. Maine

    

    Maine is in the New England region of the northeastern United States and is the easternmost state in the contiguous U.S. Its capital is Augusta, and its largest city is Portland. The state is known for its rugged coastline and maritime history, and it is famous for seafood cuisine, especially lobster... read more

    People from Maine would not say stay away if you are from away. I would say it's not just money they like. They like tourists and flatlanders equally.

    I would say this is the friendliest state in the nation.

    I have met more friendly people here than in any other state. Locals will wave at you as you drive by. They are 100 times more friendly than people from California and New York.

    The people are great. Friendly and helpful. It is a state where self-sufficiency is either in the background or the foreground.

18. Tennessee

    

    Tennessee is a state located in the southeastern United States. Tennessee is the 36th largest and the 15th most populous of the 50 United States. It is known for its contributions to country and blues music, especially in cities like Nashville and Memphis.

    I'm originally from California, and when I first found out that I would be moving here a few years ago, I was dreading it. I thought that everybody here would be hicks or Bible thumpers, but it turned out that everyone is so wonderful! People here never walk past you without a hello and asking how you are doing. They always invite you over to "eat somethin' good," and the food is amazing. I miss Cali, but I definitely don't mind staying in this sweet, friendly place. And no, not everyone is stupid here, as most outsiders would think. In fact, almost everyone I know is well educated.

    I moved to the very edge of the state outside of Memphis from Pennsylvania, and the difference in the way I'm treated by strangers is almost surreal. Strangers smile at you! They ask how you're doing in the grocery checkout lines and make small talk. In PA, you're lucky to even make eye contact with someone. People are so cold towards one another. It was quite refreshing to move somewhere where people seem to actually care about other people, even strangers, especially after moving over 1,000 miles from home. Now I consider the Mid-South my home.

19. Kansas

    

    Kansas is a state in the Midwestern United States. It is named after the Kansa Native American people, who inhabited the area. Kansas is known for its agricultural output, especially wheat production, and for its historical significance in the pre-Civil War conflict known as Bleeding Kansas.

    Kansas should be higher on the list. I've lived here my whole life and I disagree with the person who says they met people who bragged about themselves or used zero manners. I have met people like that, but I've also met people in other places who were way worse.

    But then again, that person seems to have been around, and I won't fully explain why you're wrong, but I hope you get it.

    The nicest people you will probably ever meet. I've lived here my entire life, and every time I travel out of town, I am not used to the rude and foul behavior that some people display. I am not used to it.

    I'm only used to kindness and manners because that's what I'm surrounded by daily in Kansas.

20. South Carolina

    

    South Carolina is a state in the southeastern region of the United States. It is bordered by North Carolina to the north, Georgia and the Savannah River to the south and west, and the Atlantic Ocean to the east. Its economy includes manufacturing, agriculture, and a growing tourism sector centered on... read more

    It's a utopia for sure. Everyone is friendly, polite, hospitable, helpful, and caring.

    Living in South Carolina, I believe that the people here are really friendly.

    South Carolina is a great state. Everybody is so nice!

21. Indiana

    

    Indiana is a U.S. state located in the Midwestern and Great Lakes regions of North America. Its capital and largest city is Indianapolis. Indiana is known for its manufacturing industry, particularly in automobiles and steel, and for hosting the Indianapolis 500 auto race.

    I just moved from Indiana to Florida. I grew up in Michigan. As far as friendliness goes, both of those states are way more friendly than Florida.

    The dismissive attitude in Florida I could live without. The weather makes up for it.

    I live in Indiana, and most of the people I know there are very nice and kind to me, like my family, friends, teachers, etc. Is there a reason to hate Indiana?

    Indiana is amazing! There are friendly people that you'll get along with right away! Sometimes, Indiana may not be the best, but other than that, it's still good.

22. Michigan

    

    Michigan is a state in the Great Lakes and Midwestern regions of the United States. It is the only state composed of two peninsulas and is bordered by four of the five Great Lakes. Michigan is a major center of the U.S. automotive industry, with Detroit historically known as the Motor City.

    Michigan is a friendly state due to its long-standing history of welcoming diverse populations, a strong sense of community fostered by local events and festivals, and various initiatives aimed at creating inclusive environments for newcomers, immigrants, and residents. The state also offers family-friendly policies and a welcoming atmosphere in many of its communities.

    Michigan is often considered a friendly state due to its welcoming atmosphere, strong sense of community, and emphasis on "Midwest Nice". The state has a long history of welcoming immigrants and newcomers, and various initiatives aim to foster inclusion and a sense of belonging. Additionally, the state's natural beauty and recreational opportunities contribute to a positive and welcoming environment according to a travel blog.

23. Illinois

    

    Illinois is a state in the midwestern region of the United States. It is the 6th most populous state and the 25th largest in terms of land area. Illinois is home to Chicago, the third-largest city in the United States.

    I heard Chicago is an amazing place. The beautiful skyline and the lake lining the whole eastern side of the city are just gorgeous. As well as being an amazing place, I also heard they have amazing and outgoing people, despite being a big city, one of the biggest in the country!

    I live here, and I've found that yes, not everyone is very polite, but the majority is. Also, supposedly, the Midwest is one of the nicest regions around, with a diversity of friendly people.

    People talk a lot about Chicagoans, but the rest of the state's population is just as friendly. Very down-to-earth, polite, and helpful towards others, regardless if you're a native or just touring.

24. South Dakota

    

    South Dakota is a state located in the Midwestern region of the United States. It is known for landmarks such as Mount Rushmore and the Badlands. Agriculture, tourism, and financial services are key components of the state's economy.

    South Dakota should be at the top. I'm from Minnesota, and I can't walk five feet without someone stopping me, asking for a photo, or striking up a conversation. They are definitely not shy and very extroverted.

    Everyone I have met in South Dakota has been very nice and won't judge you! I live in South Dakota myself, and it is a very friendly state! Much respect!

    South Dakota is an amazing state. It is beautiful here. Come visit in the summer.

25. Mississippi

    

    Mississippi is a southern U.S. state bordered by the Mississippi River to the west, Alabama to the east, and the Gulf of Mexico to the south. The state is known for its rich cultural contributions to blues music, literature, and Southern cuisine. It has a predominantly agricultural economy with a growing... read more

    This must be a joke, ranking us at 49... really? We should be 1 or 2. We treat our neighbors and strangers as if they were kings. We give to those who have little, even though we barely have anything ourselves. We are taught to treat anyone the way we want to be treated. We ask, What would Jesus do? I am not biased because I live in Mississippi. I'm just honest.

    Mississippi is a very warm and friendly place! It may have its issues, and some aspects of the state are a little misunderstood, but the southern hospitality is really prevalent.

26. Wyoming

    

    Wyoming is a state in the Mountain region of the Western United States. It is the tenth-largest state by area, but the least populous and second-least densely populated of the 50 states. Wyoming is home to Yellowstone and Grand Teton national parks and is known for its natural beauty and energy production... read more

27. Florida

    

    Florida is a state located in the southeastern region of the United States. It is the southeasternmost U.S. state, with the Atlantic Ocean on one side and the Gulf of Mexico on the other. Florida is known for its warm climate, tourism industry, and diverse population.

    All my family lives in Florida, so I go down there every year. I've made friends in places like St. Augustine (which is an AWESOME town), and it feels like home to me. Every time I leave, I get so sad. Someday I'm planning to move there.

    A lot of transplants from the Northeast and Upper Midwest who, after living here for a while, loosen up and smile and talk. Small town, inland Florida is very, very friendly.

    I moved from PA to Florida and loved it. I wish I never came back to PA. Everyone in Florida is super nice and there is a lot to do. Best state ever! I plan to move back one day.