Top Ten Ways to Know Someone Doesn't Want a Child
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Some partners are shy while some are very comfortable with just saying "no".
When you say you want a baby and they start out with all the problems that could happen then that means that they just really don't want a baby and you should respect that! Saying stuff like "We just wouldn't have enough money" or "I wouldn't be a very responsible parent" is a very big sign.
Focus on your partner's expression when friends or family ask if you two are going to have a baby. If they seem uncomfortable, scared, angry, or shaken then just reply with "we haven't decided yet! " and talk to your partner later.
This is actually completely unrelated to wanting or not wanting to have children. But if they don't get enough money from their job then they probably don't want to spend all the money that they might not even have on a baby.
Often if people had a rough childhood (for example: if they were bullied constantly) then they may not want children in fear that the same may happen to their child.
If your partner owns a vagina, then they might talk about the fear of it hurting or the fear of not being able to put the baby weight off. Well if your partner is scared then you shouldn't force them to have a child.
We all do, don't even lie.
Have you ever seen a toddler or a little baby giggle or dance. It is so cute! But when you point out how cute they are, your partner just says "nah". If it's just a couple times then maybe they just don't find that specific baby very cute, but if they say no to every baby then they probably don't want one. Make sure to ask though.
With the exception of you, of course! It may be time to get a dog or cat! Maybe something cool like a python!
I like animals more than people (i'm not joking)
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