Top 10 Worst Things About Having No Friends
The Top Ten
My best friend is me talking to my self in my head. Yup sounding like an edgy loner
I am a nobody. I'm just the one everyone can be jerks ton and I just have to take it. I used to have friends. But, then they just turned into jerks. My mom even abuses me. Even my best friends just started treating me like crap. Now I feel like I have no point in being in this world. I can predict suicide in the next few months.
At least you make a list like this one. It's a start. Even if you think that nobody wants to talk or to listen to you, there are always people who wants to talk or listen to you. The difficult part is to meet them but like they say " After rain comes Sunshine " and it comes mostly at times when you don't expect it.
Whenever I am on this site, I have no friends. Whenever I am at school in real life, I have no friends. Anywhere, I have no friends. At school, they said that all the students were nice and friendly, and everyone was all good friends. When I went there, nobody wanted to be my friend.
Nothing is eternal in life. Sometimes you can get so sad that you lose hope. When that happens it looks like this is an emotial state that will stay forever. Before you can make or even want to try to make friends you should first try to get rid off the lack of hope.Only then you will be ready to give and receive friendship. The difficulty is to know how to get rid of your lack of hope and sadness. There is no real formula for that. Everybody has a different way to trying to solve that problem. I personnaly try to read classic greek philosophy ( especcially Plato ) because it gives me sometimes hopeful answers about questions of love, friendship that I couldn't understand. That's for me a way of helping myself but like I said it can be something else for someone else. Just be aware that it will take time, but one day it will give you the fruits for happiness. Even if you don't believe it now it's a sure thing that it will.
You become lonely and sad, then it's even harder to make friends, and you get even lonelier and sadder... You keep spiraling in this vicious cycle. If my friends hadn't caught me, I'm 90% sure I'd be dead by now.
Keep going' man, it always gets better. Alwaysss. - keycha1n
If you feel anxiety for that it proves that you are a true and emotional honest person. Someone ( and believe me, there are people out there who does ) who can understand and who knows that is a potential friend. Your little social anxiety will be understood and forgiven when you talk to a person with those beliefs of knowledge. Sometimes it's the other person that will come talk to you ( those people exist ).
I have friends, and I still suffer from this. You can message me if you want to talk about it, PrincessKiana--I kinda understand where you're coming from. - PetSounds
I have anxiety in general. - Luxam
No one really liked me when I was a 1st grader,discrimination and those stuff,and from that time I had a habit of bowing down my head even when I'm happy,I get really shy when I go to new areas,yeah it feels horrible.And by 6th grade,my best friend in school abandoned me because I'm not cool,popular enough,also I'm such a pushover in her point of view.
Great list by the way. - SamuiNeko
Maybe you should take someone you think you can trust in confident and explain your problem(s). If he or she don't care it would never been a friend and if he or she cares and listen to your problems it will maybe the start of a friendship. It's more easy to say than done but if you don't try you will never know. To receive you have to give.
I'm a teen girl who collects pokemon cards, plays minecraft/video games and hates makeup. Since most of the other teen girls in my local area are makeup-obsessed I feel left out. - Lunala
I like stuffs people in real life I know dislike and dislike stuffs people in real life I know likes, so finding someone with the same interest as me is a real challenge - XxDarkStorm_PhoenixMothxX
Whenever we create posters at school I do mine by myself because I don't think anyone will agree with my ideas
Same. I prefer working alone because in groups everyone gets bossy. - Lunala
Having no friends is one of the worst, most lonely feelings in the world. - ShuhBanggg
In my case other people thought I'm insecure but the truth is just I'm brutally honest with my opinion. that's why they mistaken it as a sign of insecurity. - userkosatoptens
When the teacher tells you to divide up into groups and you have no one to go with and you have to go with the teacher is literally the most embarrassing feeling in the world.
It's so awkward because you'll be standing in the middle of the classroom waiting for the teacher to notice while everyone stares at you
I'm always the last person to find a partner
It's so painful to know that
I can understand the need of expressing your feelings to someone. The difficult part is to find the right person who understands and who listens. If you're a shy person it will be most of the times also a shy individual who will be this other person. Because we're talking about shy persons here it's for sure that it will take time but sort seeks sort ( I'm saying that in a good way ) and that happens in life like a kind of magnetic power.
I almost never talk at school but really, I'd like to punch practically everyone in the class.
Better to go alone. No one forcing you to do something, just you and yourself - XxDarkStorm_PhoenixMothxX
I'd love to do fun things like movies and stuff. With someone other than parents or siblings. - Lunala
I love this list. You totally speak the truth and what comes from you heart, Kiana. - BlueTopazIceVanilla
I don't think it makes you lesser social ( there is no social communication or connection so how can it be social? ) but Ithink it makes you more shy and lonely and that's what makes you think that you're not a social person but a loner. The good thing is that loners are thinking a lot and that makes them usual stronger ( they learn better than anyone else who's a fake and who's not ) once they're are trying to become more social with the right people.
I have friends and I still get picked last
This sucks so much :(