Top Ten Struggles of Having a Common First Name

I myself have a very common first name (Noah), so I truly understand the struggles of it. Here's only a few.
The Top Ten
1 Having to go by your first name and last initial

It's quite irritating, to be honest. Or, if you don't go by your first name and last initial, in a conversation, someone addresses "Noah," for example, and you don't know which one, causing confusion. Some people even call me by my last name because it's so frustrating sometimes!

It's literally the most annoying thing ever. However, if one has a nickname, it can become easier.

Exactly! So confusing! Don't get me wrong, I love my name.

2 Your name isn't as unique to you

"Names, if you've forgotten amongst all the excitement, have a utilitarian purpose. If your child has the same name as 10% of their school, let me tell you, you have failed." -Hank Green.

I get that my name has a meaning (it means rest and comfort in Hebrew), but it doesn't sound unique to me because there are so many other Noahs. I've tried counting and lost track!

Michael is definitely a common name, even where I'm from. That's why I've always been called Mikey.

3 You feel like you could be outshadowed by someone with the same name

This really annoyed me back in 7th grade. There was another Ethan in my grade who was getting all the girls, making me feel as if I'd been replaced with a more athletic, snobby, smarter version of myself.

Having a common name isn't even bad. I have zero struggles with having a common name. Feeling overshadowed is the only somewhat minor inconvenience.

This happens to me a lot, unfortunately. I know a few different Noahs who talk to similar people as me.

4 Meeting new people/Talking to other people

When talking to someone about someone else, I have to bring up first and last names constantly due to how many people have similar names in my school.

5 Feeling like your name is being overused
6 The awkward moment you meet someone with the same first name isn't as funny after a while

I have six people in my class with the same first name and two with the same last initial. The other frustrating thing is that we are all friends, and it can get confusing.

7 No cool nicknames for common names

People with really common names don't get to have cool short names because their name is so commonly used, it almost becomes routine to say it.

8 It doesn't sound as unique when it comes off the tongue

Like I said earlier, it almost feels like a routine to say it.

My name is short and kind of common, so I agree with this one.

9 Your name feels bland

Male names in general are bland. That's why I would name my boys (many years down the road) something from another language with a deep meaning. For girls, I'd stick with names like Cynthia, Rochelle, Celeste, or Brielle, unless they become too common.

10 When you have another classmate/coworker with the same name

Whenever the teacher calls on you for an answer, you both respond.

The Contenders
11 "Oh, I've met a few _____s before!"

Please, we know. My name is as common as a bank on a business highway.

12 When someone yells your name in public and you can't tell if they're talking to you or not

I always instinctively turn when someone says my name, even though there are probably ten other girls with my name in the room.

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