Top Ten Biggest Problems With Yaoi Fangirls

I'm not a homophobic jerk I just hate this fanbase
The Top Ten
1 They don't care about age

Ok, I'm just going to say this now. I'm a Yaoi fangirl. And I'm sorry, but I'm a bit hurt by this post. I mean, I agree with most of the things listed here, but here's what makes me upset. So I believe that there are 2 types of yaoi fangirls. The first type are the ones that are crazy and rude and all the things listed here. But the second type are those you are kind and nice about their ships and not totally crazy. And I agree, the crazy fangirls are the one ruining anime. But not all fan girls are like that. I hate how you just label us. I know the yaoi fan base has its problems. But so does every other fan base. Let's be honest. What fan base doesn't have problems? Anyway, I'm sorry about the rant. It's just my opinion.

I'm a Yaoi Fangirl, Alright? Just gonna say it now. This rant is going to be about Sebaciel. I love this ship to death and I just love all of the hints the anime puts out and I would love for them to be canon. But not like in most of the fanficions people write. Like where Sebastian is some fetishy guy and Ciel is his victim. Granted I do love reading a few fanfics like that, but I would hate for THAT to be canon. If they were to be canon, I would want them to be all fluffy and sweet and also keep up their master/ butler relationship, but with Sebaciel mixed in. So basically I would want them to be a shounen-ai couple, not a hardcore one. I really don't want Sebaciel to just be all about sex. And let's the way many fan girls want them to be. And I was simply love if in one of the episodes, Ciel tells Sebastian to lay down with him until he falls asleep. That would be cute. Not where they are having sex all night.
But anyway, this is the end of my rant. But yeah, I think the hardcore sex fiction should stay in fiction.

2 They don't know what a friendship is

It doesn't help that when you google two certain characters together it usually has an "x" as a prediction and usually shows ship art first.

This is a big problem...seriously let me tell you about it. In Naruto we have an amazing story with great characters and awesome fights and all these stuff. We have a very very deep friendship betwin them that make the story more beautiful then fangirls ship them as a yaoi couple and they think:this is great,SasuNaru is real they love each other...
but is not like this they are good friends who understand each other because they both had a sad past and they were alone. Naruto understands how does Sasuke feel and as Sasuke's best friend he does his best to bring him back and Naruto always said that Sasuke is like a brother to him. That's why fangirls really don't understand friendship

Same with Mikado X Masaomi/Kida from Durarara! I mean, they're both friends! And yaoi fangirls just have to ruin their friendship with their shipping! And the saddest thing is, they didn't realize both characters are straight and already have a girlfriend. Seriously, Masaomi is dating Saki and in the Durarara! SH Light novels(It's an OFFICIAL continuation to the Durarara! Light novels. But I don't know If they'll adapt It into an anime show) Mikado is dating Anri.

3 They think rape is hot
4 They ruined Cuphead

Need an anti cuphead club thank to the children.

I really want to punch them on the face!

Cuphead has ball on his body!

5 They hate other characters because they "interfere" with their ship

This usually happens with female characters. Seriously, they should realize that just because a female character loves a male character doesn't mean she's a bad character for that. And it's sad the fact that many fandoms have these types of fans.

And since when did the male characters get any hate. Seriously what makes male characters so special apart from female characters?

Host Club (not anymore, thank goodness), Inuyasha, Pokemon, Naruto, etc.. It's really annoying. While I'm not of fan of some ships like Tamaki/Kyoya, Inuyasha/Kouga or Miroku, Ash/Brock, I end up hating them even more because of it. We get it, you don't like that character. Just ignore her. Why bashing them because they're there?

Yep. I myself am a fujoshi, but the only turn-off I have for this fandom is how the community treats respectable and amazing female characters; they degrade them for "sinking their ship". I get it, but you could just simply pair her up with another character in your fic or AT LEAST not make her look horrible...

6 They only like it because it's guys making out

I am a yaoi fangirl but I get so pissed when people only enjoy the ships because of the "sexual tension" and "sexiness" between the guys. I also ship Yuri ships just as much but many Yaoi fangirls just enjoy how sexy the guys are. Whenever I see a yaoi porn fan blog I literally want to pull my hair out.

I love yaoi. But this reason is probably one of the most pathetic reasons I've ever seen whenever it comes to shipping, be it boy x girl, boy x boy or girl x girl. Couples should be shipped for the relationship they share, NOT for sexual tension.

I ship boy x girl couples all the time. Anyone who ships yaoi or yuri should die.

7 Incest

Glorifying incest is one of the most weaboo things to do. Incest isn't "kawaii ", it's illegal, and traumatizing. It's "don't tell mom". It's "it's okay because this is what siblings do." They say it's okay if it's consenting, but that never happens, especially in sibling pairs. All they're doing is delivering a slap to victims faces by saying that something so horrifying is okay because it's "fictional" and "hot cx". If you wouldn't want to screw your sibling, why would a fictional character. It takes away from the seriousness of the crime and is just plain disgusting.

My good friend who is a HUGE yaoi fan, when I announced that I started watching Fullmetal Alchemist, gleefully announced that she had won a Ed x Mustang vs. Ed x Al battle between her and her friend. She was on the Ed x Al side.
As an Edwin shipper and a non incest fan, I found this decidedly creepy/disgusting.

Why incest. Why. Its gotten to a point where incest is so big there are animes based on incest. The worst I've seen is in the Osomatsu San community. When the main characters are STRAIGHT MEN THAT ARE BROTHERS the fandom thinks the smartest thing is to ship them. Why can't people just realize that incest it wrong. As someone who likes yaoi (I'm not a fan but I do have quite a few yaoi ships) I hate crazy yaoi fans and I believe incest should be higher.

8 They make a yaoi ship for every anime

This is so annoying & they are not only doing it with anime but also normal T.V. shows. Every time I want to join a fandom it's 70% cringey yaoi fangirls who ship two male characters - preferably the edgiest ones. They are pure cancer.

*googles Digimon Tai and Matt*
*(probably) gets yaoi pictures of them*
It doesn't matter if Tai or Matt are child (Adventure) or teen (Adventure 02) or adult (Tri) yaoi is not ok! It just ruins every anime! It's worse if two characters are children and it's yaoi, that's worst type of yaoi! I just hate yaoi, I see it everywhere and it just makes me sick! Everything has to be yaoi which is kind of stupid..

Honestly this is true. And some who say it's not true because they ship outside of anime is bulk. You're one person, we're obviously talking about the majority.

9 They think yaoi equals gay rights

I told some 13-year-old Tumblr-tard on an app that I hated ZaDR, and never shipped it. Immediately they called me a homophobe who couldn't decline politely, even though they went on my profile and asked for RP, wasting my time. They probably weren't even gay, and honestly if not shipping M/M makes me a homophobe, then they are a heterophobe for not shipping M/F, and a hypocrite. :) Also, I ship F/F(Yuri), which is a type of same sex ship. I'm a chick, and I would feel more comfortable playing my own gender against either gender :3

I have never seen any form of yaoi that accurately portrays an actual homosexual relationship. As a matter of fact all of the yaoi I've ever seen is really fetishy and disgusting. Shipping a homosexual couple is an entirely different thing from yaoi.

Most gay men actually don't even like Yaoi. They have their own genre I think called "Bara" that is written by gay/bi men for gay/bi men, and they depict the characters appropriately. Yaoi just fetishizes gay men

10 They ruined South Park

Half the time they look NOTHING like their original counterparts in yaoi art aside from hair color and clothes. Like they give Kyle straight hair and they make Cartman skinny.

You can't search South Park on some fanart or whatever site thingy without seeing the whole page infested with animu guys wearing the boys' clothes kissing. The South Park fandom is a pure yaoi territory. I have never seen such a yaoi-ridden fandom before.

The fandom definitely did destroy South Park. They even made an episode parodying the fandom, which made things way worse. But still, South Park turned bad right after season 8-9. I have seen all of the seasons, and I can't understand people who like season 19 and 20 at all. The fandom did have impact on this.

The SP fandom is already toxic all on it's own. I mean, SP isn't even an anime let alone a YAOI. In addition, the fans also sexualize, infantilize, and fetishize the characters. Even though their like... 8/10 YEARS OLD! And don't get me started in the SEME/UKE STUFF. It's not hot. It's gross and weird. Keep in mind that the children are 8/10. Anime along with the yaoi ruined the show for me. Especially with Creek, And Style. In conclusion I feel bad for all of the characters, especially for Cr And Tw since they have been sexualized a lot.

Thanks To those yaoi/yuri fans, I will never see SP the same way again.

The Contenders
11 They fetishize gay people

I remember when I was in middle school, a group of girls (a few of them where yaoi fangirls) were talking about how hot gay people are and a whole bunch of other...things that made a real gay gentleman like myself just really uncomfortable. (Same can be said for straight men who fetishize lesbians)

I like yaoi and all, but holy hell when you talk about real people in this light (and in a public area) its weird.

Listen up, yaoi fangirls. Gay people aren't just statues to bow to. They are actual people with thoughts, emotions, wants, needs & desires, just like you. They aren't meant for you to go "on so cute uwu I love gays" whenever you see them in public. They just like the same gender. That's it. And if you support gay rights, what would you do if your close female friend confessed she was lesbian & had feelings for you?
That's right, you'd probably kick her to the curb because, "lesbians are disgusting"!

12 They don't know what a rivalry is

Though this isn't exclusive to yaoi fans. I mean, look at all the love this site has for Wario/Captain Syrup.

Ash Ketchum and one of his rival (like Gary, Paul and others),
L and Light Yagami,
Taichi "Tai" Kamiya and Matt Ishida.

I have a friend who ships ciel and alois from black butler and she doesn't understand why I don't and I always say because they hate each other and she's like nah, like boi alois wants to kill ciel :/

13 They don't realize when certain characters hate each other

A perfect example of this is Izaya and Shizuo from Durarara!. They're out to KILL each other people! But you know what? Whenever they harm each other, or chase each other down, the fangirls go "AW"

What if Mikasa was a guy? That's right, ErenXMikasa would be HUGE. But nope. People hate on Mikasa because she's close to Eren. Can't we all just realize that Erei is a terrible ship.

One example is with ereri in which levy (the ri of the ship name) beats the living crap out of a defenseless eren (the ere part of the name...duh)

14 They are sexist

Always see women as mobsecond character that need to be well...beaten, yelled at by the protagonist. See them in many original yaoi series..don't they realize that girls are human too?

15 It makes characters ooc
16 They don't notice the relationships other characters are in

This one absolutely drives me mad! Like when they ship Goku with vegeta even though both characters are MARRIED!

17 Selfcest

Len selfcest and Link selfcest needs to die out. It's disgusting. I understand pairing two different characters together. But the same character with themselves? Are you nuts?

First incest, now selfcest?

18 They write R-18+ Doujinshis and lemons of their ship

I know, this sounds gross and over-the-top, but It's true. And creepy

19 They won't shut up

I'm a yaoi fan and I strongly agree with everything listed here. I hate and despise these types of yaoi fangirls that is listed here. They want you to shut up yet the are the ones that spammed the entire fandom with their yaoi porn art of their pairing that we do not like even if you don't look for it no matter how careful you are. This even annoys other yaoi fans that want to look for fan art of their personal unpopular otp only to be spammed with it then eventually growing to hate the most popular yaoi pairing. Hetero porn art is uncommon and not dominant in the fanbase.

No we won't shut up because you don't shut up. We are allowed to hate you and don't care how much we hurt you are because you don't care about our feelings either. Some yaoi fans with no standards that made incest pedophilic shipping dominant in the fanbase deserve to be shamed and do not deserve respect. Fan made hetero incest pedo ships are rare to the point you almost never see them most of the time for they keep it to themselves in a secret underground club where most people can not see in public. You do not see it unless you find it. Yaoi is far more common, more mainstream and more frequent when it comes to this. They spread like the bubonic plague in the fandom. I hope they get a taste of their own medicine. Let's see if they like it, if it has then it has the exact same feeling as we have for them.

Yaoi fans like to blame others for their stupidity and actions. They do not want to accept the truth and refuse to reflect on themselves only means it's true. Not all of them obviously some yaoi fans are logical and have standards (anti-incest and anti-pedo, against shipping enemies that literally kill each other) while others are terrifyingly vocal ill-behaved monsters with no boundaries. Again this is from a sane yaoi fan.

20 They ship straight guys with other guys, even though it's obvious that the straight guy has a crush on a female lead

I don't know if someone's said this already, but I need to point this out. Yaoi fangirls believe that they can control a male character's sexuality. Which is fine, unless it's explicitly stated that they're straight at some point in the series, like if they're shown to have a crush on a female character.
To all yaoi fangirls: If a guy (who you just happened to ship with another guy) gets together with a girl in an anime you're watching, you can't do anything about it because that couple is now officially canon. You're still free to ship whatever you want, but it's not going to change anything if the writers have already made up their minds.

I don't know if this has been stated already, but I need to point this out. Yaoi fangirls seem to think they can control the sexuality of anime characters. Which is fine, unless it's explicitly stated that they're straight at some point in the anime. To all you yaoi fangirls out there: If a straight guy ends up with a girl in an anime you're watching, you can't do anything about it because it's officially canon. You can still ship all you want, but it won't really change anything. I'm sorry if this makes me sound a bit mean, I'm honestly not trying to be.

21 They ship "yaoi" and then complain about real-life homosexuals.

I made an example of this case...
Yaoi Fangirl:(sees a male character on screen and another male character who they ship the previous character with standing next to the said character)...Kiss(with imagining of them making out, while getting a nosebleed imagining how her OTP should be canon)
The next day, the yaoi fangirl sees two boys hugging, even that she has no idea why they're hugging. But she screams...
Yaoi Fangirl:Ew! They're both boys! Disgusting!

I've seen a bunch of comments on YouTube like "sebaciel is kawaii but I think gays are gross..."

like...grow up

22 Pedophilia

Yup pretty much

23 They get too defensive when someone says that their ship isn't cannon.

Oh god, this is so true. Whenever I tell a Fujoshi that their ship isn't cannon, they BLOW UP ON ME. Some actually brainwashed themselves into thinking their ship is cannon and insult me for "not knowing enough" and to "watch the anime again".

Then there are those who know it's not cannon but still bash me and say that they can still ship them.

I KNOW you can ship them, I'm just pointing out that it's not a cannon pair. That's it. I'm not bashing you for pairing them, geez.

I can't hate you for shipping non-canon ships because that'd be hypocritical, but if the ship is confirmed to be non-canon, don't go Bakugou crazy. You can draw (appropriate) fanart and write (appropriate) fanfiction but you can't throw a tantrum or hate a character for being with/shipped with the guys you shipped.

24 It's just creepy how they get so obsessed over it

I remember a test done to see if you're a really "fujoshi".. according to them no because I don't think about it h24 and don't imagine other innocent people making out. Happy to not be a fujoshi then.

They act like animes such as free are the best just because of yaoi ships

25 Think gay men are hot but are scared of real life gay girls

This... this is why I hate yaoi fangirls though I like yaoi.

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