Top 10 Most Annoying Things Girlfriends Do
Based on my own personal experiences. Add your own if you want.
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Force you to talk on the phone
This would be messed up. If I get a boyfriend, I wouldn't force him to talk to me. I hope he wouldn't do the same to me.
No way. I always feel happy when she calls me, even when I'm doing something important.
This is exactly why I don't plan to date anytime soon.
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Try to get you to go to concerts for artists you don't like
It would be a good idea to date someone with similar interests and hobbies, including music. I tend to get confused about why people date others whose interests they don't like.
If I had a boyfriend and he did this to me, I would break up with him. And yes, I hate country music.
Yes, once we went together to a concert at her request. We had the best time of our lives.
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Go on and on about stuff you don't care about
If you were really her boyfriend, you would care about what she's saying. If she has concerns or problems, you need to be there for her. If she wants to talk to you and you're free, don't complain. You'd want the same thing from her, so do that for her.
My ears are always perked up whenever she speaks to me. I just love watching her talk endlessly while I sit quietly.
I go on about stuff she's not interested in either, so I would be a hypocrite if I didn't listen.
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Force you to sit on her couch and watch her sing songs into a hairbrush
Whoever added this to the list might be bringing up a personal experience of their own.
This is so random that I bet the creator of this list had it happen to them.
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Cry if you don't say hi to her
In my case, I wouldn't do this. If they're tired or busy, then that's fine. I'd probably be the one wanting to say hi first.
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Take your virginity, tell you that she loves you, then break up with you
Get married first. Don't take someone's virginity before marriage. It's a bad idea to do this if you're not sure whether you'll stay together. Be ready for commitment before considering sex.
Sounds nasty.
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Try to get your attention and throw a tantrum if you don't give it
If she has a problem and needs your attention, then that's the boyfriend's responsibility. But if she's doing it just to be annoying and clingy, then she needs to give you some space.
A girl wants a man to listen. If he doesn't want to listen to her, she could surely find another guy who will.
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Try to make out with you in front of coworkers
In my case, I'd feel awkward kissing in front of other people. It's just something that makes me uncomfortable and probably makes others uncomfortable too.
As a best friend of someone who experienced this, I managed to save him and have a "talk" with that person.
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Ask you out of nowhere to marry her
This is one of the biggest problems in romantic relationships. One person (mainly guys, obviously) often proposes to the other as a surprise. I mean, there are even compilations on YouTube of boys getting dumped during surprise proposals to their girlfriends!
Talk about marriage first. Never do surprises. Also, don't propose in public in front of strangers. It puts the person under a lot of pressure to say yes, which is very unfair. It can also make the guy seem desperate, using the crowd to pressure the girl into saying yes. Guys, never do this without permission. Talk to your girlfriend about marriage first, and then plan a surprise if she's okay with it.
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Complain about how fat she is
That is very annoying. People should be proud and happy with who they are. No one would want to date someone who constantly puts themselves down (I'm not being rude or anything like that).
This is annoying only because it's not true!
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Make assumptions and come to conclusions when she hardly knows anything yet
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Only notice when you want sex
After a month of back rubs, emotional support, and being a good boyfriend in general, as soon as you bring up sex, she says, "All you ever think about is sex! What's wrong with you?!"
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Cheat on you
This is quite possibly the worst thing a girlfriend or boyfriend can do to you.
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Talk about her ex
Women can be hypocritical. They don't want to hear about their new boyfriend's exes but talk about their own exes.
My girlfriend has done this before. When I am in that situation, I just want the floor to eat me.
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Force you to watch movies you won't like
Twilight? How about a real movie like Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, or Planet of the Apes?
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Not let you watch porn
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Make you listen to music you don't like
I wouldn't want a girlfriend who listens to Top 40 stuff out loud. I would want a girlfriend who has similar tastes.
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Dump you
That's why I don't have a girlfriend yet. I'm afraid that she will dump me.
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Nag you over everything
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Be mean to your friends
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Accuse you of cheating
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Talk during sex
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Brag about you to her friends
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Tell her friends to back off
This shows that a woman cares about her boyfriend way more than a man cares about his girlfriend.
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Call you embarrassing nicknames
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Be overly possessive