Top Ten Things We Look for in a Man or Woman

The Top Ten

  1. Intelligence

    Of course. Also, everyone who comments here is sapiosexual - people who are sexually attracted to people by their intelligence. But anyway, you need to find intelligence in someone.

    It is extremely awkward if your lover cannot use a fork and thinks that the Sun is fire, not plasma. So, intelligence is a key thing to look for.

    Intelligent men are extremely attractive.

  2. Personality

    Look, if you do not like your boyfriend or girlfriend's personality, dump her or him. You are not going to find happiness in your life by marrying a person you do not even like.

    My personality is humor, intelligence, and well, everywhere I go, I sing out loud.

    Someone without personality is in trouble for more than just finding love.

  3. Fun

    If you are not fun, then best stay single.

  4. Kind Heart

    Great options. This is hard to choose only one for now!

    Hard to explain exactly, but a girl who has got heart has reached the I care about you stage.

    This is the thing I look for most in a girl, besides if she likes me or not, of course. Who added boobs to the list? Seriously?

    A combination of a kind heart and intelligence will never fail. I definitely would not want a kind idiot or a mean genius.

  5. Sexuality

  6. Passion

    I love a woman who is passionate about her hobbies. For example, movies, music, comedy. There is a girl I always dream about.

  7. Looks

  8. Sense of Humour

    A good sense of humour is vital in a relationship. Hearing a woman laugh at my bad jokes is awesome. Women find a good sense of humour a turn-on.

    Men cannot go wrong if they can make a woman laugh. Sharing a joke with the opposite sex is a special feeling.

    Oh, how I love a good laugh, especially one from a guy who I find attractive. After seeing this list, I thought I should study. I never knew the Sun was plasma. I thought it was a planet that went through a bad accident.

  9. Kinkiness

  10. Respectfulness

    Respecting boundaries and asking for consent is so important.

    11. The Newcomers
  11. ?

    Same Religion

  12. ?

    No Substance Abuse

    13. The Contenders

  13. Health

  14. Similarities

    Not many women like martial arts and rugby like I do, so it can get pretty lonely for me. It would be nice to share the same interests. My name is Dean, and I live in South Africa.

    That coincidence is always satisfactory.

  15. Nice Smile

  16. Compassion

  17. Honesty

  18. Wealth

    If you are a rich man, you will meet any woman. If you are a rich woman, you only meet with a pal of your same social status (a.k.a. social exclusion).

  19. Willingness to Listen

  20. Athleticism

  21. Warmth

  22. Style

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