Top Ten Things We Look for in a Man or Woman

The Top Ten
1 Intelligence

Of course. Also, everyone who comments here is sapiosexual - people who are sexually attracted to people by their intelligence. But anyway, you need to find intelligence in someone.

It is extremely awkward if your lover cannot use a fork and thinks that the Sun is fire, not plasma. So, intelligence is a key thing to look for.

Intelligent men are extremely attractive.

2 Kind Heart

Great options. This is hard to choose only one for now!

Hard to explain exactly, but a girl who has got heart has reached the I care about you stage.

This is the thing I look for most in a girl, besides if she likes me or not, of course. Who added boobs to the list? Seriously?

A combination of a kind heart and intelligence will never fail. I definitely would not want a kind idiot or a mean genius.

3 Personality

Look, if you do not like your boyfriend or girlfriend's personality, dump her or him. You are not going to find happiness in your life by marrying a person you do not even like.

My personality is humor, intelligence, and well, everywhere I go, I sing out loud.

Someone without personality is in trouble for more than just finding love.

4 Sense of Humour

A good sense of humour is vital in a relationship. Hearing a woman laugh at my bad jokes is awesome. Women find a good sense of humour a turn-on.

Men cannot go wrong if they can make a woman laugh. Sharing a joke with the opposite sex is a special feeling.

Oh, how I love a good laugh, especially one from a guy who I find attractive. After seeing this list, I thought I should study. I never knew the Sun was plasma. I thought it was a planet that went through a bad accident.

5 Fun

If you are not fun, then best stay single.

6 Sexuality
7 Looks
8 Passion

I love a woman who is passionate about her hobbies. For example, movies, music, comedy. There is a girl I always dream about.

9 Nice Smile
10 Kinkiness
The Contenders
11 Health
12 Athleticism
13 Respectfulness
14 Similarities

Not many women like martial arts and rugby like I do, so it can get pretty lonely for me. It would be nice to share the same interests. My name is Dean, and I live in South Africa.

That coincidence is always satisfactory.

15 Willingness to Listen
16 Compassion
17 Wealth

If you are a rich man, you will meet any woman. If you are a rich woman, you only meet with a pal of your same social status (a.k.a. social exclusion).

18 Warmth
19 Honesty
20 No Substance Abuse
21 Style
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