Worst Things About Breaking Up


The Top Ten

1 Depression, because it's not your fault.

Unfortunately if this happens it is quite unfair because the one who would feel most badly should be the one who's fault is the break-up - MatrixGuy

She broke up with me because she knows her parents will never accept me. They don't even know me. Is it my fault to be born in a specific race/religion?

Its especially bad when the reason you broke up was because of a family matter (e. g. someone on her side died, etc. ). - fireinside96

This is the worst part. The sadness. It stays with you for quite a while. - jprg12

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2 Ignoring each other afterwards

I hate this like what the heck(seein tht I just broke up recently) but yeah my ex-gf ignores me all the time and today we just talked but like it suxed it was about talking to sumbody and then we just yelled at each other so yeah hate breakin up and not talking makes you regret breakin up even though it was the right decision - ballaboi17

it's so awkward when you see them somewhere

3 Seeing him/her with someone else afterwards

Just knowing someone else is gonna eventually be with her doing things that you thought would only be for you for the rest of your life; taking her out, going to places, kissing, making love, just a few examples. It puts a pit in my stomach just thinking about her with another person doing those things...

Being a virgin is not the worst; believe me. It is this. You know, there was a girl I liked back in high school; I really loved her so much, and the next thing I knew, she's sleeping with my best friend. Ouch! P. S. This is true, I'm not joking around! I want my REVENGE! - aeromaxx777

See them will hurt cause you know you miss being with them

Dude because of this I smoke and drink now

4 Remaining a virgin

damn man you are so right - strifegust

are you serious? depression? ignoring each other? come on now, remaining a virgin would really be the worst thing about breaking up.

5 Guilt

I don't even want to think about me her breaking up - SmoothCriminal

6 Knowing that he/she might hate you now

All these things are horrible things about breaking up, but this one is one of the worst things to happen, because you're left afterwards wondering if she still cares about you or if she hates you, and you wonder how she can go from "being in love" with you to suddenly not giving a damn about you... Makes you wonder if anything they ever said was true. - EvilAngel

7 The break-up coming unexpectedly

"Let's go have a our little sunday with 2 straws.. my treat... huh?.. what?... nononononononono, I could change I could be a new guy, the engergy drinks are GONE, okay? , wait were you going? , don't leave me, wait wait wait? , WWWWHHHHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY! ", lmao jk jk... aww now I'm sad - SmoothCriminal

I thought that when his friend told me he was doing that to get me mad but when I asked him he nodded yes and I got a 6 hour sleep instead of my usual ten or 9 and lost my appetite for 2 meals and cried for 2 nights
Now I am perfectly fine took me about a week or 2 but I am fine

8 Wondering what you did.

My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend and the only thing she's thinking is "Did I do something wrong, what happened? ". It's totally unfair, just because someone is just stupid and decides he doesn't like you anymore or he's bored of you to start second guessing and thinking.

When they leave you and don't tell you WHY, it causes a lot of psychological trouble trying to spend time figuring it out. It makes it hard for people to move on knowing that there may be a small possibility repeating it.

Well if he/she does not tell you what you did wrong, then what the hell? - jprg12

9 Can we talk?

Man, I hate that part. I know I'm screwed when that line comes up. 99. 9 of the time they say that, there going to say it's over. But if you're lucky they might want to talk about something else. (but remember, 99. 9! )

it sucks when I hear these words.. - jprg12

it is very annoying don't talk to me if we are broking up - ronluna

10 No more chance to taste his and her kiss, hold his/her beautiful body

Number one worst thing no matter how much you say your over that person you know that there will never be anyone who can kiss or hold you the exact same way they did. Maybe better, maybe worse but never the SAME that's the WORST part even if you break up with them

I used to do this to my girl, she misses me because of my penis. She used me - TheRemixr

No more taste of the thing you want - ronluna

Lets all face it. We've all had a time where we've missed an ex and this is usually what gets me. These feelings and then seeing him with some other person. I just want to tear out my eyes... ���"

The Contenders

11 It's not you, it's me.

Nobody gives me the 'its not you its me', I invented its not you its me, if its anything ITS ME!

-George constanza - PotBellyPup

Its an over used line if a guy ever uses that line on me I'll be dumping his a$$ not the other way around

If it's YOU, then why are you breaking up with me?! YOU can change! - afeldman21

12 Hatred torwards that person

i continue to imagine her but i hate her - ronluna

13 You're desire, love, fantasy will not see, talk, meet, have sex with you again
14 When it's your parents who force it.

That's very sad!

This just happened to me yesterday, well her parents broke us up... I'm 21 she is 18. Her parents hated me from day one and threatened to not pay for her collage, kick her out the house and get me beaten up.

this will NOT happen to me... if they try.. I'm probably going to run away, or not tell them - SmoothCriminal

Screw you this is what daltan said “my mommy made me do that.” Mommy made me do that nothing!

15 Nightmares about things you both did together
16 Anger
17 I need some space
18 When the break-up starts with It's not working.
19 He/She replaces you with a senior citizen

Okay I just wanna tell you that I'm so... WHO THE HELL ARE YOU - SmoothCriminal

I'm juss gonna come out and say it... WHAT THE HELL?!
- cameron331

20 The I'm in love with your best friend statement
21 Sex videos spreading

you know wthat I mean, they are someone filming you both, then you broke up and spread your sex videos throughout the country, the one who spread the videos is a millionaire now - ronluna

22 Crying

It happened to me a long time ago, because I asked her to be her boyfriend. She said no and I'm going home and crying because I have a dream about my girlfriend was dead because she's vampire boyfriend. His name is Osama and he is really creappy. Ps Osama is a arabian vampire

That's some crazy dream right there Arabian vampire that's creative

23 When they start dating someone right after you break up
24 The children

Not much more to say than that.

25 Realizing you need to find another girlfriend

Man, why am I the twin of the forever alone meme?

26 He/She replaces you with a criminal
27 Loneliness
28 No sex

Are you guys kidding me. By far the worst thing about breaking up is not having sex anytime you want!

29 Text dumping
30 Getting cussed out

I was in a relationship, and he broke up with me. Then he cussed me out!

31 Seeing each other again when you know the situation will be awkward
32 All future plans will never happen.

Remember the road trip we were gonna go on? Remember the holidays we were gonna spend together? The things we were gonna blow off together? Literally never gonna happen.

33 Suicidal thoughts

Autism makes me worst -KB

34 Wanting revenge afterward
35 Deleting old photos.
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1. Seeing him/her with someone else afterwards
2. Knowing that he/she might hate you now
3. Ignoring each other afterwards
1. Depression, because it's not your fault.
2. Ignoring each other afterwards
3. Seeing him/her with someone else afterwards
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