All LGBTQ Identities I Identify With
Hate me if you want. I don't care if you think I'm ridiculous, a SJW, or whatever. But I'm done with hiding. This is what I identify with. Deal with it. If you have any (non rude) questions, however, you can message me and I'll try to clarify as best as I can.Lets start with one that's not as controversial: being transmasculine. I was assigned female at birth, however, I identify closer to being male than female. (I'm not male either though.) And yes, when I'm older, I plan to get top/bottom surgery and start HRT.
Now we're getting into more controversial territory. Enbyflux is basically being genderfluid, but only shifting through non binary genders, so I never feel binary male or female. I call myself Ezra when feeling netural, and Lewis when I'm feeling masculine. (I don't have a feminine name, more on that in a second.) However, I am rethinking about those names and I might change one or both of them, or drop one.
Remember when I said I don't have a feminine name? Well, here's why. A genderfaun is someone who's genderfluid, but never feels female/feminine aligned genders.
Let's get into sexuality now. A enbian is someone who is non binary (again, not binary male or female.) that is only sexually attracted to other non binary people.
Someone who's cupiosexual is someone who doesn't have any actual sexual desire, but desires a sexual relationship. Since I only desire a sexual relationship with non binary people, that makes me cupiosexual and enbian.
Someone who's omniromantic is romantically attracted to all genders, however they aren't genderblind and have a preference. My order of preference is non binary people, girls, and guys. (However, I'm rarely romantically attracted to guys - again, more on that later.)
Let's go into the lesser known sexualities. Aesthetic attraction is when someone basically thinks "this person is really really hot - but I wouldn't have sex with them." I'm aesthetically attracted to all genders, and I'm genderblind here, thus, making me pan-aesthetic.
Alterous attraction is a mix of romantic and platonic attraction, but not exactly being either of them. I'm andro-alterous because I'm exclusively alterously attracted to men.
Also, random fun fact: if you're alterously attracted to someone, you have a mesh on them. Mesh is the equivalent of crush.
This isn't really a sexuality or a gender, but I need 2 more items and apperently this is included in the LGBT community. Polyamory is when you desire a relationship (doesn't have to necessarily be sexual) with multiple people at a time, with everyone's consent. I don't have a problem with non polyamory though.
This is to the surprise of no one. You aren't assigned enbyflux at birth, to my disappointment.