Top 10 Best Sex Advice for Men

This is assuming a heterosexual relationship. I hope this helps.
The Top Ten
1 Consider oral sex
2 Leave the porn fantasies behind

Porn is made primarily for the pleasure of men, but if you want to please her, you should leave porn behind. Many times, women enjoy being submissive, but you don't want to treat them solely as a sex object. You should acknowledge that they exist as a person too.

3 Be persistent, but take no for an answer

Don't be forceful. If she's drunk, err on the side of caution and don't have sex with her unless she initiates with you. If a girl says she doesn't want to get physical with you, then back off. If your advances are unwanted, then stop.

But at the same time, don't take this advice to the other extreme. If you're dating a girl or really getting to know her and she rebuffs one of your advances, don't necessarily take it to heart. If there's a pattern of rejection, then just move on. But if you two are going out and have chemistry yet she doesn't want sex yet, sometimes that "No" might mean "Not right now, but eventually."

4 Learn how to be a good kisser

You can't get to point B without going through point A. If you're a good kisser, you can turn a girl from slightly reluctant to totally on board. Don't use too much tongue. Your lips should be mostly closed during a kiss, but also soft (not tightly held).

5 Know what you're getting into

If it's just a one-night stand, don't expect more than that. If it's just friends with benefits, don't expect a relationship.

6 Play it cool early on

Don't bring up sex in detail when you first meet her. Flirt a bit, but don't say or do anything overly sexual on the first date. Women will be put off if you've just met them and you're already trying to initiate sex.

7 Be healthy

If you're overweight, lose weight. There are things that women won't do with a guy who's overweight, such as letting him go on top of her. Losing weight will really improve your blood flow, performance, and stamina.

8 Engage in foreplay

Don't just get naked and have sex. Kiss her. Cuddle with her. Play around. Massage her. Maybe roughhouse a little bit. Take your time. At least 15 to 30 minutes should elapse before actual sex happens.

9 Talk to her

You don't want to have an in-depth conversation, but you should talk to her a little. When things get intense, you should be quiet. During foreplay, a little teasing (and also asking her what she likes in bed) can help you a lot.

10 For your first time, pick someone you trust

A casual fling may not be patient enough to deal with you on your first time. However, someone who is a close friend or is in a relationship with you would likely be more than happy to take the time to teach you things, as they'll be more patient.

Oh, thanks. I hadn't considered this.

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