Top 10 Things You Should Never Do If You Like a Girl
Does it ever seem like whenever you like a girl, you can never get her to like you back? If so, then you're probably doing one of these things!
Here are ten things NOT to do if you like a girl.
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Tell people you like her
If you do this, things are only going to get worse. It'll probably just make everybody uncomfortable.
I told one person, and it spread around to her, and now she won't talk to me.
Especially not your friends, because then everyone will know.
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Stare blankly at her
I had a guy stare at me in class. It's creepy. Stop. He may not like me, but I don't like the feeling of "I'm watching you" or "I'm interested in you." Make the girl interested in you first by having fun.
I don't know why, but if you stare at her, even adoringly, she'll think it's creepy.
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Send notes or texts
I really don't have an explanation why. Just don't do this. If you do, you'll find out quickly why it's a bad idea.
If you want her, you gotta be man enough to say it to her face.
I know firsthand how bad texting a girl you like can be.
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Bother her about it
You're just going to make her uncomfortable and reduce your chances of getting her if you do this! Like her all you want, just keep her out of it!
We'll get annoyed and, again, avoid you.
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State your inappropriate thoughts about her out loud
Again, we'll avoid you and think you're a creep. That should stay private.
Should have read this earlier.
Whatever you do, DO NOT DO THIS!
She and everyone else will think you're just creepy!
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Talk about how you'll never get her
It reminds me of compliment fishing, and it would make you sound emotionally volatile and a short fuse. It makes it sound like you can't take no for an answer and creepy.
THIS can be VERY disrespectful and toxic, and it makes you sound entitled.
This makes you sound weak and unconfident, which is just bad.
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Buy her anything
She'll start to use you to get what she wants, and that's not a good relationship.
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Treat her like she's perfect
Don't treat her like she's stupid, but don't act like she's the single most amazing person in the world either.
Not a great idea, though you should always treat her nicely.
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Send nudes
Again, common sense. That's really weird, and she might just expose your pics on social media, which makes you look pathetic.
That would be the stupidest thing you could do.
Disgusting. Don't do this to anyone.
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Ask her out
Asking her out can make guys seem really desperate.
Only do this if you're both comfortable with each other as good friends. Don't be a creep. Wait for the right time by getting to know her first and becoming her friend.
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Ask to see her naked
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Flirt with other girls in front of her
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Insult her
That will just make her think you dislike her.
You'd think this would be common sense...
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Sing her dirty lyrics
Yeah, no, please don't. It's really weird, and we'll avoid you at all costs.
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Touch her without her permission
This sort of stuff could get you in a worse situation than just the principal's office.
Ask for permission instead, it's cute.
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Say anything to her about how much you like her
Let's be honest. She probably doesn't care and doesn't want to hear it!
Guilty as charged. (For guys, anyways. I'm straight, so...)
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Make her think you stopped talking to her
Again, we think you're not interested, so we move on.
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Tease her
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Do something weird in front of her
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Call her a name
I can't believe someone would call a girl babygirl and or mommy. I'm gonna be sick.
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Tell her that you want to be friends
We think you're not interested, so we move on.
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Block her when she tries to get attention from you
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Call "us" boyfriend and girlfriend
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Give her a Valentine's card with your name on it