They always want you to be honest but when you are they get angry

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They expect us to be honest but then if we do they get mad? They're not even honest themselfs

YES exactly. there was once I bought a quartz necklace without telling my mom because she doesn't allow me to buy things online and because she thinks it's a "waste of money". but here's what I think. the money is mine. I do whatever I damn well please with it. case closed. so eventually she found it in my closet and she asked me where I got it. I started crying for fear she'd hit me with the cane (per usual. she always hits me when I disobey her, thus this is why I hate her because she treats me like a pet. more like a dog) then I told I don't want to tell her because she'll get angry. then she told me to be honest or she'll get angrier. so I told her. then she STILL hit me in the end. so I was like what the actual f? I don't know why she even hits me. like I already bought it, so does hitting me change the fact that I did?

So true! My mom wants me to tell her about my school day and so I used to do that everyday last year. So last year there was this one really funny guy who did at least one funny thing everyday along with his friends, so when I come home I would usually tell her about what funny thing he did today. After like the third day she got mad saying I'm thinking to much about boys and not enough about work. I mean how is that eve possible, I have awesome grads, and me and that guy were just friends, it's not like I liked him or anything!

This happens to me a lot because if I'm taking ballet or gymnastics I don't like it after a while sometimes. And I'll get upset when I don't feel like going and I'll be cranky and my mom is like what's wrong and when I say I don't want to go she like you made a commitment and that makes me feel worse because she always says she doesn't want to force me to do stuff and be honest if I don't like something.

Oh my God this is the story of my existence in my family. They get mad and come talk to me and ask why I never share how I feel and what my opinion is and then when I finally do, my mom starts screaming like a maniac telling me how disrespectful selfish brat I am. Sorry I have a mind of my own and don't agree with every dumb ass ignorant point of view you have.

It doesn't matter to my parents either way! I told them the truth, they get angry. I told them "nothing", they; well my Dad, gets angry anyway. Though it wasn't right, this is why I used to lie a lot when I was younger when it came time to tell the truth, especially when they found I watched homosexual porn. - Johnny1991

It doesn't matter to my parents either way! I told them the truth, they get angry. I told them "nothing", they; well my Dad anyway, gets very angry anyway. Though it wasn't right, this is why I used to lie a lot when I was younger when it came time to tell the truth, especially when they found I watched homosexual porn. - Johnny1991

They want to know EVERYTHING that happened at school
They want to know why my room's door is closed
They want to know why I ate less today
They want to know why was I smiling
The want to know which book am I reading
They want to know which song am I listening on MY Ipod
They want to know why I am wearing such a bright coloured top today
They want to know why am I listening to a sad song
They want to know what am I texting to MY friend
They want to know... EVERYTHING!

I officially love this website! My mom and dad always tell me and my older sis, "tell us how you feel, we love you." I know they love us, but when we tell them how we feel, they don't really demonstrate it.

Every single one is true like what

They need to shut up she gets mad at me for no reason what so ever and she why I am mad

I have anger management problems she talked bout I need to calm down like shut up mom by the way my dad is nice

Scenario 1:
Parent: You did something bad. Tell me the truth and you won't get in trouble. What did you do?
Child: Well I (confesses).
Parent: WHAT! YOU ARE GROUNDED FOR A MONTH! NO LEAVING THE HOUSE IN THAT TIME!

Scenario 2:
Parent: You did something bad. Tell me the truth and you won't get in trouble. What did you do?
Child: I won't tell you.
Parent: YOU LITTLE LIAR! YOU ARE IN TROUBLE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

I have anxiety and I ask to talk about it. When I do my mom starts yelling at me and telling me things that make me feel bad. Then she complains about feeling bad cause I feel bad. So when I try to talk again she starts telling me how I'm wrong.

This is so true. After my first semester at my university I came home and she said I was different and I was trying the play the "I'm still the same" card but she didn't buy it so I finally told her I was depressed and then she started yelling at me. Like what mom?

Ok, so I was still out of town when school started and I didn't know who my teacher was. When my friends say that I had the bad teacher, I was so pissed. When my Dad asks me what is the problem, I say its nothing. He then tells me "Just tell me what your problem is. I won't get mad" So I did and he gets super pissed at me. And he said that of I said that name again, I would be grounded for 6 months.

YESS! My mom says I never tell her anything... Huh, I wonder why? Maybe it's b/c every time I do tell you anything you either interrupt me by saying "why are you telling me this? ", "And your point is.. ? ", or right in the middle of me talking and I say something she doesn't like, she'll interrupt me immediately and start lecturing and yelling at me. then say I started the argument. hey, I was just talking you're the one that won't the time of day to finally let your daughter say something after you say you want her to. REALLY?!

I get so mad and don't even want to talk to them at all.

Thank this always happens I always be honest but she just wanna think she the queen of the world that rules people and thinks she's always right and shed miss right

True I'm Asian and where we come from your supposed to do and act the same way families in the 50's acted but that just makes the family crumble apart.

My Dad is so like that always on my case and when I tell him the truth he yells and tells me I'm a liar and I get something taken away

My dad is always straight-forward in telling me what I do wrong, but when I try to talk to him about something he could improve on, he gets upset

Oh my god I know. My mom always does this. She gets so mad and punishes me to the extreme when I'm trying to be honest

I'm always honest in my house and that gets me in EVEN MORE trouble than if I lied. UGH! - Pegasister12

What's wrong dear you are sad I'm DEPRESSED MOM but if I tell her everything she'll hate me and she's the only person that is like me

I get that a lot and I hate it I be trying to do that but she starts running her mouth every time I be honest of doing something

My mom and dad want me to tell them everything but when I do they get many and say "don't do that again "

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