Top Ten Worst Things About Being the Eldest Child

The Top Ten
1 Getting blamed for everything


When my younger cousins does bad stuff like hit me with toys, blast the T.V., or taunt me, I tell them to stop, and my relatives tell me "don't do that, leave them alone, they're just kids, they don'y know any better, and then later my mom starts to tell me off harshly.

I hate being the oldest >:(

Happens to me every single day. I swear I'm so sick of it.

I can completely relate to this...

2 Being treated differently than your other siblings

This is SOOO true. My sister always bullies me by touching my private parts and saying rude words. But when I tell that to my parents they say "Okay you can handle it on your own" and when I try to ask my sister to stop it's the end of the world. And when I tease my sister she'll start screaming and my parent will start scolding me and telling her to ignore me when they hardly scold my sis!

My younger sister always gets the better treatment than me. For her high school graduation, she got money and a buffet. When I graduated from high school, I got NOTHING AT ALL. So unfair!

3 Having to help your younger siblings with homework

My sister doesn't have homework, but I do, and no one helps me with mine.

Luckily I don't have to do this. Her homework is harder than mine!

4 Having to be responsible for everything
5 Having to put up with your other siblings
6 Having to go to their friend's parties

No, but she has to go to my parties, which I don't mind.

Doesn't apply to me

7 You have to respect your younger siblings when they don't respect you

I always think „do I look like I care?" when I get told to respect my siblings.
Either way I will go complete rage mode if my siblings even dare to try to make it like a fascist dictatorship with them in charge.

My 19 year old sister says shut up to me: Mom and Dad doesn't care.
I say shut up to her (I'm 26): they tell me not to say that

8 Being expected to be a good role model

This is kinda hard sometimes... :P

9 If they loose something, you have to give them yours.
10 Always being last
The Contenders
11 Doing chores

I'm 26, and my sister's 20. I have to do chores, and my sister does not have to.

12 Being servants to younger kids

My cousins used to make me do stuff for them instead of doing it themselves

13 Everything is automatically your fault despite the fact that you are not even involved in the problem
14 Getting yelled at the most
15 Visiting relatives hardly acknowledge your existence
16 Getting dethroned by your new sibling
17 Having to share everything you have

I had all the attention to myself for 6 years until my sister was born and I had to share MY ENTIRE LIFE with her...

18 The younger sibling always get the better treatment
19 Your popularity declines

When I was little, I was the only kid (and the youngest) for 6 years and I was very popular with everyone. After my sister and cousins were born, that all changed forever. They all are now more popular than me :(

Why does this matter?

@mistyglow-After high school, my mom got increasingly overprotective of me. I rarely left the house because my mom won't let let me do so unsupervised, which means very little to almost no socialization within the outside world. I have lost nearly all my friends from high school, and the only human contact I have is mainly my younger cousins and relatives, whom I rarely see due to them having lives of their own as well. When we do get together, they don't pay attention to me so much, because I am the only adult kid in the family, and the topics they talk about aren't "right" for people my age. Also the first thing that the grownups do is say hi to all the younger kids whenever we greet each other during parties and gatherings. They then talk to them all the time and they ignore me most of the time :(

20 No one pays attention to you
21 You will likely die first
22 Being bullied by younger siblings
23 Parents always defend the younger siblings
24 Your parents have high expectations for you

Had to have high, high hopes for a living...

25 Even though you're older than your siblings, you still can't boss them around
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