Top Ten Most Annoying Things Parents Enforce

The Top Ten

1 Being "too old" for certain things

My parents are ageist as hell! I am an adult and I like Disney's Hercules, drawing with school supplies, baby blankets, and stuffed animals, but my parents think that if adults like that kind of stuff, they have mental problems! >:(

Yeah that's true when my dad caught us watching a certain Nick Jr show he says it's for babies but we're just watching it only for our childhood memories and not to act like babies. AGEIST DAD.

Thank GOSH my parents like Looney Tunes... in fact, Looney Tunes isn't just not just for kids, but has several inappropriate material like uncensored Russian Roulette, how many times you can shoot a duck and pro-LGBT messages.

You're never too old for anything. You can be too young for things but not old.

2 No cursing

I do agree, cursing is bad, but come on! When the child is angry, you gotta give him/her some stress relief idea! You can't just be a bad parent while your child tries to hold in his/her anger!

Kids really shouldn't even be swearing. I don't think they should even use alternatives to swear words. Parents can swear because they're mature enough and have the experience to handle such immense power. Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words can cause chaos beyond our control.

My mom won’t let me curse and I am 15! What’s even weirder is that I am allowed to watch movies with curse words in them but I CAN’T SAY THEM?!

This should be at a bigger number, because what's the point of swearing, NO POINT, it isn't like computer (I'm currently grounded as of the post, but my dad forgot to turn off the PC) or anything else, because there is 100,000 other words out there and makes you sound like trash.

3 No social media

If you disagree with social media, screw you. Social media is the only way I talk to:
1. my best friend from school I no longer see because I moved. Okay, I can't talk to her in person. So don't tell me to get up and talk in person.
2. The way I talk to my mom. I very rarely see her. So glad I have facebook.
these people ranting over social media? just shut up already. It doesn't harm anyone.

Really? Social media is the biggest waste of time ever! People are so antisocial nowadays, get off your phones every now and then and talk to people in person, social media is pointless like Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, etc., you people need to grow up!

They probably wanted to protect you from child predators and scammers. They're probably one of the few parents who care about the dangers unlike the parents who let their underage children use Facebook before they became of legal age.

It's for a good reason. Sure you can post something and feel great about it but years later you will regret it and won't be able to delete it. I'm glad my parents were like this.

4 No expressing your emotions

Some strict parents depress their child so much that they feel they shouldn't express their emotion. My parents never did this tho so I am grateful

I can NEVER be mad or sad in my house, like, I'm gonna cry idiot, but they don't understand that. Like, would you rather me start cussing in your face of just let me cry?

When I get scared, mad, feel pain, or is hurt, I want to cry. When I get very angry, I want to scream and yell in another room, vent, and punch and hit pillows and other soft objects, but my mom won’t let me and insists that I keep my feelings hidden >:(

My parents want me to bottle up my anger inside, which makes it even worse

5 Getting off your electronics at a certain time

My mom never lets me play any video games. She just wants to be chrisitian and read the bible all the time. But I think her making me do that is turning me into an even worse person. I will burn her house when I grow up to be 30 >:)

My parents don't understand that the only time I feel calm is when I'm with my phone or at school. My step-dad especially doesn't understand that the cause of all my stress (and recent anxiety attack) is because he yells at me everyday for doing nothing to deserve it. I was going to rewrite my essay and he told me I had an hour to do it. My brain kind of just stopped so I couldn't write anything down. He yelled at me, threatemed to slap me before I started crying (again, it's already been a stressful day. He doesn't need to keep adding onto it). Went to bed without dinner since I lost my appetite and I'm too uncomfortable to tell my mom my true feelingss since she's only nice to me when that demon of steo-dad is gone...

My parents: "Did you finish your homework?"
Me: "Yes." (being honest)
Them: "Then off your computer"
Me: "I finished my homework though, can I ju-"
Them: "No, get off, and read a book"
:(

My life is constantly filled with stress, and electronics are my main distraction from all the stress of life. My parents don't get this, though. Actually, now that I think about it, no electronics is the only punishment my parents ever give me.

6 Extreme frugality

My parents are Asian and are very cheap. My mom reuses brown paper lunch bags for WEEKS, and my dad thinks that a $1 box of crayons is too expensive.

Even though my family is middle class, we usually buy very cheap things

7 Letting your younger sibling get the better pick

They just spoil their sisters. Both olders and youngers are equal.

This always happens...

Oh yea it is awful

8 No wearing certain clothes

My mom doesn't like it when I get heavy metal shirts, and I have a lot of them. 2 Led Zeppelin ones, 3 Metallica ones, 1 AC/DC one, 1 Iron Maiden one, and I almost got a Megadeth one until I decided to get a video game instead. My older siblings, or aunt has to pretty much buy the shirt without telling my mom, and she gets really angry when I get the shirt.

This is totally okay with me. If parents don't want you to wear something there is definitely a good reason. I agree with everything they say about this 100%. Modesty is important and why would you want to walk around looking like a walking billboard?

I only wear real clothes, not "booty shorts" which are a bit hoe-ish in my opinion. MY rule I make for MYself, it's my desicion: Pants must go past my knees. No dresses or skirts. Makeup not allowed. (Tomboy) Shirts must go past my waist. I think revealling clothing is UGLEH and looks so sketchy. Even my swimwear has to be this way.

I wanted to wear a turquoise shirt with a red background for picture day then my mom got so MAD. She made me change my background to purple :(

Picturing that in my head right now, I can tell you that turquoise and red clash horribly, and purple is a much better fit. However, I'm 100% on your side on the yelling thing. She had no right to yell at you and should've calmly explained it to you like a normal person

9 Bed time

Apparently, my older siblings used to play with their neighborhood friends after school each day. However, at 5:30, my Mom came up to them and said that it was time for bed time. They started complaining saying that it wasn't even 6 yet, it was still bright outside, and they had only been outside for about 30 minutes. However, they went inside, and then sat in their room till 8:00 talking to their friend for another hour, and Mom never knew.

Ugh! I hate it! My lazy, stubborn, strict father always says " if you're not in bed by 9:00, the only thing that'll be in your room is your bed" I looked at him like what, and I wanted to yell at him SOOO BADLY! Like if someone stepped on your foot purposely like 20 thousand times, THAT BADLY! I mean I wake up before them in the morning, and I'm rarely tired during the day

They just want you to get enough sleep! Scientifically proven results of getting enough sleep: Better health, better mood, lower risk of injury, better weight control, clearer thinking, and a better memory!

I WISH my parents enforced this! Then I wouldn't have developed quirky sleeping habits which spiraled into insomnia...

10 Making you clean your room

I agree with my parents at this one. I always make my bed in the morning and I hate when things getbout of order in my room. I usually put the things I used to the place where they belong, so I can find them.

I alway's hated having to clean my room it's small but I still hate doing it

I hate doing this

I meant "get out".

The Contenders

11 No being in the same room with members of opposite gender

I was 12 or so and my younger sister was scared or something, maybe of the dark. Anyways I offered to let her sleep with me. mom said no, and I had no idea why. Now I know. You really think that because I wanted to comfort my sister, that I was going to have sex with her AT MINE AND HER AGE?

! Ikr? Like, I have a friend the opposite gender of me, (I'm a girl.) and my grandpa won't even let me go into the bedroom with him just to see something in there! (I have to admit, he's kinda hot.) Like, come on, IT'S STUPID! My grandpa literally thinks we are gonna have sex in the room together, when we're both only 12 YEARS OLD! What is wrong with parents?!

When I was 14, I was hanging out with this boy and he held my hand. And then mom said, "You shouldn't hold hand hands with a BOY! " Really mom? What if I fall down a cliff? You expect my friend to let my hand go?

I mean really to a certain extent this is a good rule but when I am at my friend's house, her mom doesn't let us close the door to her room with her SEVEN YEAR OLD BROTHER in there.

12 Making you write thank you notes after holidays

Luckily we don't need to do this. Just telling them (either in person or by phone) or sending an email is fine.

Can't you just say thank you in person? Also who the hell mails letters anymore?

My parents do this all the time on holidays

Ikr all I say is like hi and its very awkward

13 Show us what you're doing

Aka "Let us have complete control over your accounts and know everything you do online! Hope you're still sane after this! " The first (and last) time my mom enforced this rule, my Google account was deleted and so were all my videos, all because she couldn't handle me swearing on the internet. I'm sneakier now, but still. I also had her force me to remove my best friend (and only friend) from my Google contacts list one time, over a prank where I told my friend I got a virus on my laptop and couldn't use the internet, and was sending the message from my mom's phone. Needless to say, I'm pretty sure I lost my sanity from that. I literally went from using my laptop in front of everyone, not caring about what they thought of the sites I was on, to being paranoid of people opening my door when I use my laptop, even when all I'm doing is watching Equestria Girls for the 47th time. She'll also think I'm hiding things, even if there's proof that I'm NOT hiding things. So yeah. Sorry for the ...more

Even worse, my parents SPY ON ME over my shoulder whenever I'm on the internet!

My dad always used to check my history

14 Telling you to do something you're uncomfortable with

I agree. I want to drive because it is important but my parents literally think it is not normal for someone who is 20 years old to not be driving but they don't understand that it is my choice to start driving lessons and letting me be in my comfort zone and see if I'm ready. Yes, driving is important because you can gain experiences outside but if I am feel I am not ready to drive, I am not going to do it because I don't want to put myself in a situation when I will be in a potential accident. My parents think I don't take my life seriously because I don't know how to drive but I work my ass off in school, treat everybody with respect, and accomplish my house chores. They literally think I am lazy. SMDH.

Last September I was at a wedding and my mom told me to change into formal wear while my aunt was in the same room as me (I'm female). I prefer changing in privacy.

My parents try to cliche me so I will break down and say everything that I am uncomfortable with

15 No video games on school days

Now that school is starting, my parents may only allow me to play on Fridays. Not Saturdays or Sundays. And I can only play for 1.5 hours. >:(

I can only play them on FRIDAYS! Why the fudge do I have to wait for ONE DAY just to play ONE GAME?! I swear if this rule stays in summer too, I will rage!

I actually think that this is a reasonable rule. But if you finished all your work or have no work then you should be allowed to play.

I rarely get access to video games on school days ever since 6th Grade. If you want to play games you have to wait until Saturday and Sunday. That's stupid and the dumbest idea EVER!

16 The oldest child is automatically responsible for everything

An angry dad comes to the living room looking at me? Did you broke my guitar? Me looking all annoyed...
Me saying no it was my little brother... Dad saying (Are you lying? ) Me saying: NO! If you're lying, you are the son of the Saitan, tell me the truth... Me rolling my eyes facepalming saying I did... My dad about to punch me on the face but I blocked his crappy punch. I responded, so you're telling me that I'm a liar? AND YOU'RE TELLING ME TO TELL THE TRUTH BY SIMPLY LYING? Dad saying, are you calling me a liar? I don't lie. Me saying, excuse me? You said to tell the truth and my first 2 responses are true, but the third response is a lie that you said "tell the truth" Young man, I am tired of arguing with you. You need to accept my response and none of this will ever happen, father

WHY PARENTS?!?
I am the oldest child in my family, don't get me wrong, I love all of them. But I always get blamed for things I didn't even do! What is up with that? I mean, what if this happened:
Little brother: knocks over vase or something fragile and it breaks
Dad: runs into room and yell asks who did it.
Me: It was {little brother}!
Dad: TELL THE TRUTH!
Me: I am!
Dad: You're grounded!

And another thing: They are always telling you that if you tell the truth they will not be mad, and then 2 seconds later, you are grounded.
*INHALES*
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!?!?!

(Also, how do you post multiple comments? )

I am an only child and I always hated that no one to talk to no one to play with but now I think its for the best after reading this

My sister does something bad, I get the blame. When my cousins whine and cry, it’s my fault for not letting them have their way. Parents argue, they say it was because of me. My relatives are mad or upset or embarrassed, it’s because I caused it.

MOST OF THE TIME I WASN’T EVEN INVOLVED IN THEIR PROBLEMS!

17 Not allowed to date until a certain age

Dating is so overrated! Early relationships are also just based on looks, not true attitude. It is better to date when we are older, more mature and have a better understanding of love.

Every girlfriend I ever had in the past 2 or 3 years (Which is only 2 of them), did my mom make me break up with when she found out about it. She would'nt let me have one until what, 30 years of age?

At least most 7 year olds don't have to freak out about this since usually they greatly despise the opposite sex.

If you date as early as high school you will probably end up as a trash collector. This is quite important lol

18 Have to eat all your food

I can understand the argument. Food cost money and if you have to throw it away it's not fun. On the other hand everybody knows that when you have enough it's unhealthy to eat more. If you know that your child isn't a great eater, just make less food.
Comment from a parent.

This is nothing to do with the topic but it's about food, every Saturday we buy McDonald's and buy chicken selects and fries but for some reason mom keeps yanking out my chips so annoying!

My parents don't force me to eat my food. By the way, I eat all of my food mostly, unless it doesn't taste bad. My parents say if I don't like the food, then I don't have to eat it.

My parents: your over weight we need to put you on a diet. The next day my mom would make a super greasy steak and scream at me for not wanting to eat the whole thing

19 They take you to school even though you are sick and don't feel well

I tell my grandpa I don't feel good, that I feel like throwing up. And all he says is this... "Aw, your fine, you're going 2 school." Sometimes he lets me stay home when I feel the same. I go to school feeling like puking all just for an "education" *facepalm*

Once when I was little I said I felt sick but my parents didn't believe me. But they took me home because I was whining. Five minutes later I literally threw up all over the floor.

So yeah.

I went to school with a fever DOZENS of times. Just took some tylenol in the morning before leaving and I'm good to go for the day

Whenever I feel like I have a soar throat they will still take me

20 Treating the younger ones better

This is totally obvious. My younger sister gets money on her high school graduation. When I graduated high school, I got NOTHING at all. When my sister and cousins do bad stuff, they are immediately forgiven, but when I made one TINY minor mistake, my parents yell at me and act like it's the end of the world. MY cousins get 20+ "happy birthday" messages every year. My sister gets at least 5 every year (she has friends), I only get a maximum of 3 per year. If I get 4 or 5, I am considered extremely lucky that year. This is just a small sample of my life...

It just seems like they're pedophiles because they treat younger brothers or sisters like presidents, and they're forcing me to do the same thing.

My big sister seems to live under stricter rules than me, and it kind of sucks to hear my father telling her off for something I'd get away with.

My little sister and brother are always spoiled by my dad but for some reason I'm always ignored.

21 Going to church/mosque/temple/synagogue but you are atheist/humanist

Yeah, like I have absolutely hated going to church my whole life when I was 4-16 years old so I went just to please them. But ever since my mother was shunned by the now a mega church we used to go to I have never wanted to go back. Soon after I turned into a Devil worshipper. but now my dad and mom do want to be Christian again and do what we did back then. I don't want to badly since I absolutely hate anything Christian, but they kinda made a hint to me about doing exorcisms on me to convert me back into a Christian again. Yeah...-_-

My cousins, sister and I are atheists but we go to a Buddhist temple to pray around Chinese New Year sometimes. We actually like going there because a vegetarian meal is served afterwards and we all like to eat

I'm an atheist and my parents don't take me to church and even when I before became an atheist

This isn't a problem, I'm Christian and love being with God at Church

22 They don't let go outside in the rain because "you are going to get sick"

So ' annoying. I love playing in the rain! Like jumping up on the back of the truck and getting soaked with water. ( Yeahhh I'm so weird ) But when it's seriously pouring outside, they say your gonna get sick and then you won't be able to go to school. Even though they're gonna make you go either way so what's the diff? They say you're gonna get hit by lightning but they say it like this, " Oh yeah go outside and get struck by lightning. Hope you live! " Yeah. #1 parents of the year. I'm sure they don't really mean that, it's just a way to get your attention and get you worried. Some people have really strong immune systems and don't get sick as much so there are chances...
~Owlpaw

You don't get sick by being in the damn cold you get it by you contracting the virus

I'll get sick? Just because of rain? How?

For my parents it’s ALL inclement weather, not just the rain

23 No earrings till a certain age

well I could not get my ear's pierced till I was 25 yes 25 my mom kept telling me no you will die if you get you ear's pierced. I know this girl that was in my school and she died from getting her ear's pierced do you want that to happen to you?. I really didn't care I just wanted to have pierced ear's my family gave me so many earring's not knowing that I didn't have pierced ear's. so one day my mom said ok we will go have it done. and you know what? I didn't die. what? my mom was wrong? wow!

Excuse me..y'all are so lucky...most of the girls in my school get literally shocked to know that I don't have my ear pierced even...so what..actually my parents didn't get my ear pierced until I was 12 (lack of responsibility mom) and then one day she tells me to get my ear pierced..I told her no..seriously I can't..It's okay If I don't look pretty but please..I exactly know it's painful as hell..then my mom also didn't bothered..But my horrible so called relatives continuously started telling my mom that I should have it done..seriously..who are you to judge if my parents don't tell me to...and then onwards my mom started forcing me to get my ears pierced...I'm 15 and there's no way I'm gonna do that

My ears got pierced when I was 5 but I'm almost 12 now and they won't let me get a second lot and a girl I know who is 10 has THREE!

For girls, Yeah I ain't not a girl but I guess baby girls get holes inn their ears for earing

24 Only texting a certain amount

So true my mum tells me off about it but then she spends half an hour on the phone herself for 1 bloody call. Then they goo on about how I'm to engrossed in electronics and how its changing my attitude it is so bloody annoying.

You think this is bad? Try not even HAVING a phone. All I'd want it for is keeping in contact with friends and family, and that's it!

Its very true...
My mom scolds me every now and then, when I use mobile phone

Come on! Don't be jealous because it didn't exist when you were a kid.

25 No eating snacks 2 hours before dinner

My mom will force me to eat a 1-2 yr old's portion of junk as a snack, even if I am super hungry. I am only allowed to eat a child's portion of food for lunch. I'm not allowed larger portions than that.

Sometimes she will not allow snacks AT ALL...

I usually have absolutely no choice but to starve myself. Sometimes I try to eat them without her noticing, but then she eventually finds out and I get in trouble.

I am 26, yet she forces me to eat like a 2 year old/preschooler for lunch. Even my YOUNGER cousins eat larger portions than me for lunch and snack! >:(

Also whenever we plan to go out for dinner my dad forces me to starve the entire afternoon. Even if I'm super hungry at 4 PM and dinner is at like 8 PM my dad won't let me eat even ONE CHIP.

It's also very common for Asians to starve themselves the entire afternoon before attending a family gathering where there's lots of food or going to a buffet.

Having a snack 2 hours beore dinner is not going to ruin your dinner having a snack for something like 10 minutes will however.

I sometimes eat chips or candy before dinner because my mom knows I will eat my dinner.

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